In honor of Halloween, these are the photos that exist. I do remember other costumes but I lack evidence.
The first Halloween costume in the recorded history of my life shows me as a witch with a bright blonde plastic wig. The witch is also wearing an Irish knit sweater, probably made by mother. My brother is a confused ghost.
Here’s a photo of my brother and me a couple years later. I am a bunny rabbit. He, obviously, is a clown. The height of his hat is taller than his actual body. My mother made both of those costumes.
Here I am as a flapper. This is during my junior high years, my Eight is Enough pariah years. My best friend and I were obsessed with the 1920s. We had seen Bugsy Malone. We were hooked. So we dressed up as flappers. Sadly, though, the neighborhood mothers, opening the doors to trick-or-treaters – all assumed that we were hookers. I remember one woman saying, “Oh, here are two ladies of the night” and I didn’t even know what she was talking about. This was my last year trick-or-treating.
Now we move on to college, when it becomes cool to dress up again. Here I am at a party with my college boyfriend. I went as a blind mute French beggar. The sign around my neck says “J’ai faime!” (Quoi??)
My boyfriend didn’t wear a costume. Kidding.
He dressed as a nerd.
Here we are at the start of the party, costumes intact.
And here we are a couple hours, 2 makeout sessions, and many underage beers later.
At that same party, my friends Jackie and Mitchell dressed up as Jackie’s grandparents, who were famous to all of us. Chester and Millie. They died within months of each other. Here are Jackie and Mitchell, channeling Jackie’s famous and beloved grandparents, Chester and Millie.
It is one of my favorite pictures of all time.
A year later, Mitchell and I dressed up as Andy Warhol and Edie Sedgwick.
Two of my friends in college were bridesmaids in a wedding and were forced to wear puffy royal blue gowns … and of course the bride said, “You’ll wear them again – maybe to a New Year’s Eve party!” What kind of person would wear a puffy royal blue gown to a New Year’s Eve party? Maybe someone in line for the fallen Hapsburg throne would, but a regular Rhode Island girl? She’ll just spritz her bangs and put on a little black dress.
So that Halloween there was a huge bash at the house of some friends in Eastward Look, down by Scarborough Beach. A big party house. Jackie and I decided to go as the Sweeney Sisters (who were huge at the time). We both wore the royal blue bridesmaid gowns and false eyelashes.
Jackie said, upon seeing the photo again, “I look like the secretary at the Woonsocket DMV” – which is truly local humor. As far as I know, there is no Woonsocket DMV, but that doesn’t matter. She is completely right about what she looks like. A Rhode Islander would understand.
A couple years after that – while we were living in Chicago – Mitchell and I got invited to a Halloween party. The whole Woody Allen-Soon Yi thing had just exploded, so we dressed up as Woody Allen and Mia Farrow. Please note that:
1. Mitchell is carrying Crime and Punishment
2. He is using photos of Geisha girls as a bookmark
So wrong. So offensive. So funny.
The weirdest thing about it was that when we arrived at the party, NOBODY ELSE WAS IN COSTUME. We had somehow missed the memo that it was a “formal” party, even though it was Halloween, so everyone was in black suits and cocktail dresses and we show up looking like that. And our clothes weren’t costume-y enough to protect us, so that it just appeared that we were slobs who didn’t know how to go out in public. And I was insane enough to be carrying around a fake doll.
One year, I was invited to a Halloween party where we had to dress up as someone who was actually dead. A person from history. At the party, I would look around and see Jesus chatting with Endira Gandhi, Al Capone guffawing with Jackie Kennedy.
I went as Sharon Tate. I have no defense.
I have written “Helter Skelter” all over my arms and legs with red marker.
To make matters even more evil, I rode the subway to the party dressed like that. I had a huge pregnant belly as well. I got on the F train from Brooklyn, took it to 47th Street, and then walked through the crowds to the apartment where the party was which was on the east side. I was freezing. I saw witches and warlocks and Playboy bunnies and Medusae and a couple of Chuckies and Buzz Lightyears. I sat on the subway surrounded by daemons and devils. But I was a walking crime scene. People looked at me once, grimaced and looked away, before glancing back to see if I really was who I seemed to be.
OR, even better, they stared at me, shaking their head slowly in judgment and disapproval.
Here’s the side view of my pregnant belly as I dance with Jackie Kennedy and Mrs. Al Capone.
A couple of years earlier, along the same lines, I had gone to a Halloween party as Squeaky Fromme. No pictures exists of that costume, but I remember it fondly.