Like Dave J said in the comments below - choosing a favorite line from Shakespeare is like choosing your favorite parent - it's wrong! I do agree - and my changes will fluctuate on an almost daily basis, but I do love hearing everybody's choices.
So - how about just favorite poems, in general? What are your favorite poems?
I have so many - Yeats' "The Second Coming" is surely one, Yeats' "Sailing to Byzantium" is another. I love Mary Oliver's poems.
But I think, hovering over all of these, is the following poem by Auden. It's one of the few poems I know by heart.
It's another one of those pieces of writing which has followed me through my life, showing up at different moments, providing different insights. It almost doesn't seem to be the same poem, from day to day.
On a personal note, too, this poem, along with the Hail Mary, was almost a mantra during the crazy day of September 11 - and the chaotic days following. I saw the towers fall with my own eyes. My sister Siobhan who worked down there was out of communication and missing for 3 hours. The air was literally filled with the sound of screaming. I saw grown men in suits fall to their knees and scream, "NO" up at the sky.
Later that night, raw and still stunned, I lay in my bed, sleep was months away, and said Auden's poem to myself in the dark.
I still couldn't cry - it was WEEKS before I would shed a tear - but there was something comforting and eternal in Auden's words. I cherish this poem because of what it meant to me during those terrible days. It's that last line, man ... It's the very last line that makes this poem great. And true.
The More Loving One
Looking up at the stars, I know quite well
That, for all they care, I can go to hell,
But on earth indifference is the least
We have to dread from man or beast.
How should we like it were stars to burn
With a passion for us we could not return?
If equal affection cannot be,
Let the more loving one be me.
Admirer as I am
Of stars that do not give a damn,
I cannot, now i see them, say
I missed one terribly all day.
Were all stars to disappear or die,
I should learn to look at an empty sky
And feel its total dark sublime,
Though this might take me a little time.
So - I told you mine, now you tell me yours - Favorite poem?
In terms of a short poem, my favorite would definitely be Burns' "Scots Wha Hae." I suppose that might be because I'm part-Scots, but I like it because it deals with the struggle for freedom, and the need to take a stand against tyranny. There are few things more important than that.
In terms of an epic, it is definitely Dante's "The Divine Comedy." Hands down, without question, for its combination of beautiful language and spirituality.
Posted by: Benjamin Kepple at January 21, 2004 9:02 AMRefusal To Mourn The Death, By Fire, Of A Child In London by Dylan Thomas and Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone by W.H. Auden.
Posted by: Emily at January 21, 2004 9:25 AMEmily-
"After the first death, there is no other."
Jesus.
There was a book I read in 8th grade, by a Robert Cormier (who wrote I am the Cheese) called After the First Death. I don't think I put it all together, where that title came from, until right now.
Posted by: red at January 21, 2004 10:09 AMIf I have to be all serious and stuff, I'll say The Love SOng of J. Alfred Prufrock by T.S. Eliot. If I don't, I think you already know it's Lewis Caroll's Jabberwocky.
Posted by: Dave J at January 21, 2004 10:49 AMYeah, it's a pretty intense poem. If that's the kind of stuff the guy had drifting through his head, it's no wonder he drank himself to death.
Posted by: Emily at January 21, 2004 10:50 AMI posted Jabberwocky over at Absurdity here, in case anyone wants to check it out. I love that poem.
Posted by: Emily at January 21, 2004 10:52 AMO frabjous day, callou callay...
Emily - while you were here, did you happen to get a chance to go to the White Horse Tavern? A great spot. And it's where Dylan Thomas drank himself to death. I think he might have even died at the bar, although I could be making that up.
Posted by: red at January 21, 2004 10:53 AMWhen I first arrived in NYC, I swore one of my first stops would be that place, but I never got around to it. I just didn't have the time. Next visit for sure. FOR SURE.
Posted by: Emily at January 21, 2004 10:58 AMI'm shamed to confess that I haven't read all that much poetry over the years, even though I do enjoy it. Emily Dickinson is probably my favorite poet - here's one I like:
Emily Dickinson - Complete Poems - 1924 - Part One: Life
CXXXIII
YOU cannot put a fire out;
A thing that can ignite
Can go, itself, without a fan
Upon the slowest night.
You cannot fold a flood
And put it in a drawer,—
Because the winds would find it out,
And tell your cedar floor.
So many...
Let us go then, you and I
when the evening is spread out against the sky
like a patient etherized upon a table...
and
There was movement at the station
for the word had gone around
that the colt of old Regret had got away...
and
I grow old, I grow old
I shall wear my trousers rolled
and and and....
Posted by: pat wilson at January 21, 2004 2:55 PMDon't know that it's my favorite, but these lines from Auden are incredible:
The mass and majesty of this world, all
That carries weight and always weighs the same
Lay in the hands of others; they were small
And could not hope for help and no help came
(The Shield of Achilles)
Posted by: David Foster at January 21, 2004 3:15 PMBeing the low-rent "rhyme and meter" kind of guy I am, my taste in poetry runs more to Robert Service and Ogden Nash, both of whom are known more for light verse.
However, I find both Service's "My Friends" and Nash's "Old Men" to be touching.
Posted by: wheels at January 21, 2004 6:42 PMThere have been so many. How to choose one. From Yeats there is "The Second Coming" and "An Irish Airmen Forsees His Death" and a host of other lyrics not to mention "Under Ben Bulben."
Then there's is Thomas's "Fern Hill."
And from Housman I could pick a dozen. "If Truth in Hearts That Perish..."
And Dickinson--so many there.
Hardy's "Channel Firing."
But, if pressed, I'd have to settle for Mathew Arnold's "Dover Beach." For me it anticipates the modern world and it had a particular relevance in my youth some forty years ago.
"Burnt Norton" by T. S. Eliot, and "Love Calls Us to the Things of this World" by Wallace Stevens.
Girl, your site rules.
Posted by: crazy jane at January 22, 2004 1:43 AMD'oh... that last one was by Richard Wilber, not Wallace Stevens. Oopsy.
Posted by: crazy jane at January 22, 2004 9:58 AMMy favorite (to the extent I can pick one) is Southey's "Battle of Blenheim", followed by Randall Jarrell's "Death of the Ball Turret Gunner", Shelley's "Ozymandias", Sonnet 116, Tolkien's "The Sea-Bell"...
...actually, I'm also quite fond of the lay Bilbo made in honor of Eärendil in Fellowship of the Ring, as well as Gimli's poem about Durin near the end of the same volume. :-)
Posted by: Ken Hall at January 22, 2004 10:03 AMDeath of the Ball Turret Gunner. Unbelievable poem. Something about washing the cockpit clean, right?
Oh, and Steve Wilson - Isn't Housman wonderful? He is a poet I cherish.
Posted by: red at January 22, 2004 10:06 AMOh and Crazy jane:
Thanks for the compliment.
I love Richard Wilbur too.
Posted by: red at January 22, 2004 10:07 AM"Ball Turret Gunner" is a masterpiece. Randell Jarrell really knew his stuff...ball turret gunners weren't expected to survive long once they were airborne, hence the brevity of the poem. "From my mother's sleep" to being washed out of the plane with a hose is a reference to the time when birthing facilities used to be cleaned in such a manner following the delivery of a baby...the piece goes from womb to tomb, so to speak. His "wet fur froze"...flight jackets have these fur collars, and if you were in a cold, wet climate, once you got in the air, ice chunks would form on them. He captured this horror with language, the mark of a gifted poet indeed.
Jarrell himself once noted that the way gunners appear in the ball turrets, hunched over, they appeared almost fetal.
From my mother's sleep I fell into the State,
And I hunched in its belly till my wet fur froze.
Six miles from earth, loosed from its dream of life,
I woke to black flak and the nightmare fighters.
When I died they washed me out of the turret with a hose.
"I fell into the State"... Jesus, that is chilling.
The poem, as short and simple as it is, never ceases to startle me.
I believe Garp's father (in The World According to Garp) was a ball turret gunner.
Stephen Ambrose described what it was like for those men in one of his books. Or - he let the surviving ball turret gunners describe the experience. Terrifying. Absolutely terrifying.
Posted by: red at January 22, 2004 11:29 AMDearest: Thru you I know the Auden poem. It is indeed wonderful. Tho I love most of Heaney and Yeats, I would have to opt for Leaves of Grass [the whole thing--I know that's cheating]and the famous Frost poems [Stopping... and Road....]. Many years ago [1961] your mother gave me a copy of Frost's Collected poems. It remains my most treasured book [you know I have many] for more than one reason. love, dad
Posted by: dad at January 22, 2004 11:44 AMIt was Matthew Arnold's "Dover Beach" for me as well until I sat down one day and realized I didn't understand a word of it.
Posted by: Rodya at January 22, 2004 2:08 PMRodya:
"Understanding" is highly over-rated! In my humble opinion. The books that confuse me the most, the books that I cannot seem to pin down, that seem to shape-shift every time I read them are the books I love the most. Like Ulysses, or Moby Dick, or lots of others.
I fell in love with "Dover Beach" the first time I read it in high school - I could SEE that beach, the poem filled me with a sense of doom and foreboding, but I had no idea what it meant. I still don't.
But damn, could he write, huh?
I was in a film called "The Darkling Plain". And I have no idea why the film was called that. No idea. But I loved that it was.
Posted by: red at January 22, 2004 2:12 PMFYI, "darkling" is a Lewis Caroll neologism: to darkle is the opposite of to sparkle.
Posted by: Dave J at January 22, 2004 3:10 PMI truly wish I could appreciate any of it, but unfortunately all of them are a scramble of words evoking neither feeling nor sense to me. Oh well. That's why God gave me TV.
Posted by: Rodya at January 22, 2004 3:45 PM*God* gave you TV? And to think, I got mine at Sears. I feel so boring now.
Posted by: Emily at January 22, 2004 5:35 PMEmily Dickinson's 712. And William Blake's Tyger. And a million more.
I can't forget this one, written by my daughter.
Posted by: michele at January 22, 2004 7:08 PMSince Emily mentioned Randall Jarrell, here are some lines from another Jarrell poem;
In bombers named for girls, we burned
The cities we had learned about in school--
Till our lives wore out; our bodies lay among
The people we had killed and never seen.
When we lasted long enough they gave us medals;
When we died they said, "Our casualties were low."
The said, "Here are the maps"; we burned the cities.
One of my favorites is also, in my opinion, the most romantic poem ever written: Yeats' A Drinking Song.
And I've always held a special love for Uncle Walt's One Hour to Madness and Joy.
http://www.bartleby.com/134/21.html
http://www.bartleby.com/103/91.html
http://www.plagiarist.com/text/?wid=2984
here's some i couldn't find elsewhere
http://www.deadjournal.com/users/redclay/6204.html
http://www.deadjournal.com/users/redclay/20317.html
I hope you are aware the Ball Turret Gunner is a poem about Abortion. Emily is inaccurate in her understanding of the poem. It is not the medical facitities that are washed out. It is "I" the fetus. This poem is about a life unlived. Randell died in 1965 - Before the Pill (1969) was invented and abortion was backalley.
From my mother's sleep I fell into the State,
"Mom" is in hospital. Note that State is capitalized. This poem was written prior to the Pill (1969) Randell died in early
And I hunched in its belly till my wet fur froze.
In the womb
Six miles from earth, loosed from its dream of life) This refers to the Umbilical cord being severed.. the next line is about the pain of being flushed out.. flak is collateral damage.
I woke to black flak and the nightmare fighters.
When I died they washed me out of the turret with a hose. The procedure is done. "I" never had a chance to live. In reading poetry you must unpack the meaning to gain recognition.
Posted by: david at February 23, 2004 12:35 PMI hope you are aware the Ball Turret Gunner is a poem about Abortion. Emily is inaccurate in her understanding of the poem. It is not the medical facitities that are washed out. It is "I" the fetus. This poem is about a life unlived. Randell died in 1965 - Before the Pill (1969) was invented and abortion was backalley.
From my mother's sleep I fell into the State,
"Mom" is in hospital. Note that State is capitalized. This poem was written prior to the Pill (1969) Randell died in early
And I hunched in its belly till my wet fur froze.
In the womb
Six miles from earth, loosed from its dream of life) This refers to the Umbilical cord being severed.. the next line is about the pain of being flushed out.. flak is collateral damage.
I woke to black flak and the nightmare fighters.
When I died they washed me out of the turret with a hose. The procedure is done. "I" never had a chance to live. In reading poetry you must unpack the meaning to gain recognition.
Posted by: david at February 23, 2004 12:36 PMI hope you are aware the Ball Turret Gunner is a poem about Abortion. Emily is inaccurate in her understanding of the poem. It is not the medical facitities that are washed out. It is "I" the fetus. This poem is about a life unlived. Randell died in 1965 - Before the Pill (1969) was invented and abortion was backalley.
From my mother's sleep I fell into the State,
"Mom" is in hospital. Note that State is capitalized. This poem was written prior to the Pill (1969) Randell died in early
And I hunched in its belly till my wet fur froze.
In the womb
Six miles from earth, loosed from its dream of life) This refers to the Umbilical cord being severed.. the next line is about the pain of being flushed out.. flak is collateral damage.
I woke to black flak and the nightmare fighters.
When I died they washed me out of the turret with a hose. The procedure is done. "I" never had a chance to live. In reading poetry you must unpack the meaning to gain recognition.
Posted by: david at February 23, 2004 12:37 PMDavid -
"In reading poetry you must unpack the meaning to gain recognition."
And so ... to you ... there is just ONE meaning, is that correct?
I hope you are aware the Ball Turret Gunner is a poem about Abortion. Emily is inaccurate in her understanding of the poem. It is not the medical facitities that are washed out. It is "I" the fetus. This poem is about a life unlived. Randell died in 1965 - Before the Pill (1969) was invented and abortion was backalley.
From my mother's sleep I fell into the State,
"Mom" is in hospital. Note that State is capitalized.
And I hunched in its belly till my wet fur froze.
In the womb-procedure has begun
Six miles from earth, loosed from its dream of life) This refers to the Umbilical cord being severed.. the next line is about the pain of being flushed out.. flak is collateral damage.
I woke to black flak and the nightmare fighters.
When I died they washed me out of the turret with a hose. The procedure is done. "I" never had a chance to live. In reading poetry you must unpack the meaning to gain recognition.
Posted by: david at February 23, 2004 12:40 PMI hope you are aware the Ball Turret Gunner is a poem about Abortion. Emily is inaccurate in her understanding of the poem. It is not the medical facitities that are washed out. It is "I" the fetus. This poem is about a life unlived. Randell died in 1965 - Before the Pill (1969) was invented and abortion was backalley.
From my mother's sleep I fell into the State,
"Mom" is in hospital. Note that State is capitalized.
And I hunched in its belly till my wet fur froze.
In the womb-procedure has begun
Six miles from earth, loosed from its dream of life) This refers to the Umbilical cord being severed.. the next line is about the pain of being flushed out.. flak is collateral damage.
I woke to black flak and the nightmare fighters.
When I died they washed me out of the turret with a hose. The procedure is done. "I" never had a chance to live. In reading poetry you must unpack the meaning to gain recognition.
Posted by: david at February 23, 2004 12:41 PMDavid -
STOP HITTING POST. STOP IT. NOW. Your comment has been duly noted.
Posted by: red at February 23, 2004 12:42 PMDavid, you are so wrong it is almost funny.
Posted by: Emily at February 23, 2004 4:12 PM