Category Archives: Personal

Colm Tóibín, Gary Indiana, and Los Angeles

I took this in 2009. I am naturally heartbroken about what is going on. Friends have lost everything. I am in a constant state of worry about my friends and family who are there, and devastated for everyone who has … Continue reading

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My Ideal New Year’s Eve Party … Is Fictional

I’m not much for New Year’s Eve (I have already covered this), and I’m not much for big parties anymore, nor am I into people who can’t hold their liquor. My friend Ann Marie calls New Years Eve “open mic … Continue reading

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2024 Year in Review

I put together a fairly extensive year in review: links and thoughts and thanks. I really appreciate everyone who stops by here on occasion and leaves comments, and I appreciate those who don’t leave comments, but read! And thank you … Continue reading

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Frankie has arrived

2024 has been a year of such hard work and family upheaval, plus political stupidity and all-around stress, that I can’t say I have enjoyed myself all that much, Scotland-trip notwithstanding. And even that one was for work. I’m grateful … Continue reading

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“It’s been awhile. My Oscar is getting kind of tarnished. I looked at it a couple of years ago and thought I really needed a new one.” — Ellen Burstyn

It’s her birthday today. In less than a decade, Ellen Burstyn was nominated 5 times for an Oscar (for The Last Picture Show, The Exorcist, Alice Doesn’t Live Here Anymore, Same Time Next Year and Resurrection) and won one Oscar … Continue reading

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Ms. Blue Sky

… with apologies to ELO … I am off Twitter because fuck Elon Musk. He made the platform useless – which wasn’t an accident. It was the point. Twitter was used as a way to get out information and a … Continue reading

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Goodbye Paula. You will be missed.

To the Supernatural community we have created here, and I know many of you still show up on occasion, I have been informed of the very sad news that Paula – a regular commenter here – passed away this past … Continue reading

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R.I.P. Judith Jamison

R.I.P. to legend Judith Jamison. I feel so fortunate I saw her on Broadway in Sophisticated Ladies! I was a kid and had no idea what was going on, really, but I appreciated every second of it (it was only … Continue reading

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On This Day: October 27, 2004

And nothing was the same ever again. Here is a beautiful essay by my brother Brendan about the family tradition of the Red Sox, as embodied by my crazy godfather, Uncle Jimmy. My stomach still clenches in anxiety when I … Continue reading

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Today, the Sheila Variations turns 22. wtf.

The above pic of me – taken by Michael – graced the top of my original blog, when I set it up 22 years ago today. I never should have put my picture up on my site – it led … Continue reading

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