{"id":146764,"date":"2019-05-14T07:53:05","date_gmt":"2019-05-14T11:53:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=146764"},"modified":"2019-05-14T08:05:32","modified_gmt":"2019-05-14T12:05:32","slug":"r-i-p-doris-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=146764","title":{"rendered":"R.I.P. Doris Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/cbsn-fusion-hollywood-icon-doris-day-dead-at-97-thumbnail-1849133-640x360-e1557835162167.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/cbsn-fusion-hollywood-icon-doris-day-dead-at-97-thumbnail-1849133-640x360-e1557835162167.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-146772\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\nRanked one of the greatest female stars of all time, Doris Day has died at the age of 97. I &#8220;got into it&#8221; (in a very mild way) with a guy on Twitter who said she was symbolic of &#8220;1950s conservative ideology&#8221; but this is a mistake, it&#8217;s incorrect, it&#8217;s not right, and all you have to do is watch her movies to understand that the image passed down to us of the perpetual virgin is <i>wrong<\/i>. Doris Day was NOT Sandra Dee. It&#8217;s a category error. It does her &#8211; and the women who were trying to live\/date\/navigate in the 1950s and 60s &#8211; pre-birth-control-pill &#8211; a great disservice. <\/p>\n<p>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/tumblr_po3mi3QAzi1xtonwoo4_500.gif\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/tumblr_po3mi3QAzi1xtonwoo4_500.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"231\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-146775\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\nI was going to write something about this but I woke up to this FANTASTIC piece by A.O. Scott in <i>The New York Times<\/i> which says it all, sums up what I was trying to say on Twitter. I love this piece so much: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2019\/05\/14\/movies\/doris-day-appreciation.html\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Doris Day: A Hip Sex Goddess Disguised as the Girl Next Door<\/a>. If your image of Doris Day is a 1950s goody-goody, then I highly recommend you go back and watch her films. You are in for a huge treat. Received assumptions is not a good way to respond to culture. You&#8217;ve gotta actually watch the films. <\/p>\n<p>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/tumblr_pbnse35vhw1ugv7b3o1_400.gif\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/tumblr_pbnse35vhw1ugv7b3o1_400.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"216\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-146767\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\nBecause there is always a connection to Elvis, have a listen to her absolutely dreamy cover of one of his greatest hits. <\/p>\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/XRnLY3p8rrI\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>\nShe was like Ella Fitzgerald or Frank Sinatra in that she wasn&#8217;t &#8220;just&#8221; a singer. She was one of the instruments in the orchestra, she was a <i>conductor<\/i>. Her singing &#8211; the tone, the beautiful elongation of her phrasing, where she chose to breathe, all of it &#8211; was an act of pure musicianship. <\/p>\n<p>I haven&#8217;t written a lot about Doris Day, but the main piece I wrote &#8211; which I&#8217;m very proud of &#8211; was this <a href=\"https:\/\/www.filmcomment.com\/blog\/tcm-diary-love-leave\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Film Comment essay on the great <i>Love Me or Leave Me<\/i><\/a>, where Day is cast opposite James Cagney (he lobbied hard for her to get that role: he wanted only her), and the two of them are out of this world together. It is a deeply disturbing film about a violent domestic relationship, and she gives her greatest performance in it.<\/p>\n<p>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/AtAR.gif\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/AtAR.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"480\" height=\"190\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-146771\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>My friend Mitchell has always been voluminous in his praise for Doris Day, so one day I turned the voice recorder on and asked him to pontificate. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=135531\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">It&#8217;s a great tribute to Day<\/a>, and what she did, and who she was, and just how damn talented she was. <\/p>\n<p>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/tumblr_n9i54rezpO1r2jkovo1_500.gif\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/tumblr_n9i54rezpO1r2jkovo1_500.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"213\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-146765\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Rest in peace, to a real class act. <\/p>\n<p>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/da7a5a0621d9e34b558727ad6e92a166.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/da7a5a0621d9e34b558727ad6e92a166.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"693\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-146768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/da7a5a0621d9e34b558727ad6e92a166.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/da7a5a0621d9e34b558727ad6e92a166-72x100.jpg 72w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/da7a5a0621d9e34b558727ad6e92a166-144x200.jpg 144w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/da7a5a0621d9e34b558727ad6e92a166-289x400.jpg 289w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ranked one of the greatest female stars of all time, Doris Day has died at the age of 97. I &#8220;got into it&#8221; (in a very mild way) with a guy on Twitter who said she was symbolic of &#8220;1950s &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=146764\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[7,4,23],"tags":[2123],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/146764"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=146764"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/146764\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":146776,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/146764\/revisions\/146776"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=146764"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=146764"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=146764"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}