{"id":151070,"date":"2025-10-16T08:30:51","date_gmt":"2025-10-16T12:30:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=151070"},"modified":"2025-10-16T10:53:16","modified_gmt":"2025-10-16T14:53:16","slug":"151070","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=151070","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;You cannot write and answer the phone.&#8221; &#8212; Paul Durcan"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Paul_Durcan_thin2-e1571226466202.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Paul_Durcan_thin2-e1571226466202.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"210\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-151769\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\nToday is his birthday. I love him. He died in May of this year. <\/p>\n<p>Paul Durcan&#8217;s poems are chatty, observant, scathing, often very funny. He uses long humorous titles: &#8220;The Divorce Referendum, Ireland, 1986&#8221;, or &#8220;Irish Hierarchy Bans Colour Photography&#8221;. (The humor, of course, just sharpens the points he makes.) Durcan has a strong sense of life&#8217;s absurdity, and makes merciless fun of humorless prudes. <\/p>\n<p>He had a rather horrifying time of it as a young man. His father was a judge, and their relationship was very challenging. To please this difficult man, Durcan went to UCD to study law, but whatever happened his first year in college was traumatic and his family essentially kidnapped him and institutionalized him. He was drugged up and given electric shock therapy. 45 years later Durcan said: <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I ended up in St John of God in a ridiculous way. There was nothing the matter with me. I&#8217;m sure you saw the film <em>One Flew over the Cuckoo&#8217;s Nest<\/em>. Well, I was one of the luckier ones, one of the ones who flew over the cuckoo&#8217;s nest and survived it. I didn&#8217;t get a leucotomy, which would have finished me off completely, but I did get massive amounts of barbiturates, the whole Mandrax and every lethal tablet you could ever name. I think I came out of it with a kind of melancholia.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The &#8220;cure&#8221; made him sicker. <\/p>\n<p>His mother was the niece of John MacBride, an Irish revolutionary, executed after the Easter Rising in 1916. MacBride married <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=61120\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Maud Gonne<\/a>. A legend. And so Durcan was born into this legacy, the myth of Irish nationalism and martyrdom. <\/p>\n<p>More, after the jump:<\/p>\n<p>\n<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Once he got out of the mental institution, he was free to go his own way at last. He got married and had a couple of kids (the marriage fell apart in 1984: this &#8220;failure&#8221; haunted him). His wife worked in a prison, and Durcan was the stay-at-home dad for their daughters. He wrote poetry as the children played around him &#8211; and I think you can tell. (This is a compliment). His work is not belabored, it does not circle itself obsessively. It&#8217;s outward-facing. He was a very popular poet, and held the post of &#8220;Professor of Poetry&#8221; in Ireland, a national trust. Caitriona O&#8217;Reilly described the effect Durcan has on an audience in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.guardian.co.uk\/books\/2008\/jan\/26\/poetry2\">this piece in The Guardian<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Hilarity has always been Paul Durcan&#8217;s stock-in-trade. Anyone who has attended one of his electrifying poetry readings and been reduced to hysteria (a common enough occurrence) can testify to the unique flavour of his work, especially when read aloud by the poet himself. That voice, with its peculiar, precise sibilance, its mock-solemnity, its quavering rise and fall, is the voice that remains in your head when reading his poems afterwards. He is one of the few poets honest enough to admit (as did the hieratic TS Eliot) that poetry is a form of entertainment, yet intelligent enough to know that entertainment does not mean &#8220;cheap&#8221;. His populism, his popularity, as a poet are unusual &#8211; comparable only to that favour enjoyed in Ireland by his venerated contemporary Seamus Heaney.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Here&#8217;s audio of him reading at the Irish Arts Center, in New York: <\/p>\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/3k7dCZEsuKg\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>\nI love so many of Durcan&#8217;s poems: There&#8217;s the one about the Pieta: how does he make it so funny? Yet it&#8217;s really about an overbearing mother&#8217;s love. Saying to Jesus, essentially: &#8220;You have to get up, friend, leave your mother&#8217;s knee, mkay?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s also this one.<\/p>\n<p><big><strong>Going Home to Mayo, Winter, 1949<\/strong><\/big><br \/>\nLeaving behind us the alien, foreign city of Dublin<br \/>\nMy father drove through the night in an old Ford Anglia,<br \/>\nHis five-year-old son in the seat beside him,<br \/>\nThe rexine seat of red leatherette,<br \/>\nAnd a yellow moon peered in through the windscreen.<br \/>\n&#8216;Daddy, Daddy,&#8217; I cried, &#8216;Pass out the moon,&#8217;<br \/>\nBut no matter how hard he drove he could not pass out the moon.<br \/>\nEach town we passed through was another milestone<br \/>\nAnd their names were magic passwords into eternity:<br \/>\nKilcock, Kinnegad, Strokestown, Elphin,<br \/>\nTarmonbarry, Tulsk, Ballaghaderreen, Ballavarry;<br \/>\nNow we were in Mayo and the next stop was Turlough,<br \/>\nThe village of Turlough in the heartland of Mayo,<br \/>\nAnd my father&#8217;s mother&#8217;s house, all oil-lamps and women,<br \/>\nAnd my bedroom over the public bar below,<br \/>\nAnd in the morning cattle-cries and cock-crows:<br \/>\nLife&#8217;s seemingly seamless garment gorgeously rent<br \/>\nBy their screeches and bellowings. And in the evenings<br \/>\nI walked with my father in the high grass down by the river<br \/>\nTalking with him &#8211; an unheard-of thing in the city.<br \/>\nBut home was not home and the moon could be no more outflanked<br \/>\nThan the daylight nightmare of Dublin city:<br \/>\nBack down along the canal we chugged into the city<br \/>\nAnd each lock-gate tolled our mutual doom;<br \/>\nAnd railings and palings and asphalt and traffic-lights,<br \/>\nAnd blocks after blocks of so-called &#8216;new&#8217; tenements &#8211;<br \/>\nThousands of crosses of loneliness planted<br \/>\nIn the narrowing grave of the life of the father;<br \/>\nIn the wide, wide cemetery of the boy&#8217;s childhood.<\/p>\n<p>Interestingly, he wrote a long tribute poem to Miche\u00e1l MacLiamm\u00f3ir, a man I have written about before, usually in connection with his lifelong friend Orson Welles. (MacLiamm\u00f3ir was Iago to Welles&#8217; <i>Othello<\/i> in Welles&#8217; film.) MacLiamm\u00f3ir is a fascinating man, himself, and it is not a surprise at all that he and Welles would be so close. They were both masters of self-invention, a nice way of saying they were both fabulists. MacLiamm\u00f3ir created the Gate Theatre in Dublin, as a way to compete with and rival the revered Abbey. The Gate is still going strong. It is just one of this man&#8217;s legacies. I have posted before <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=6353\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">his fantastic essay about film acting<\/a>. He basically adopted Ireland as his homeland by force of will and imagination, because, as it turns out, he wasn&#8217;t Irish at all. !!! Here he is with Orson Welles and Eartha Kitt in 1950:<\/p>\n<p>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?attachment_id=30246\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-30246\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/013004.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"013004\" width=\"504\" height=\"387\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-30246\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/013004.jpg 504w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/013004-100x76.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/013004-200x153.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/013004-400x307.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 504px) 100vw, 504px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\nMacLiamm\u00f3ir died in March 1978, and Paul Durcan wrote this poem as a tribute. It is in MacLiamm\u00f3ir&#8217;s voice, gossipy and humorous, and it is glorious.  <\/p>\n<p><big>Miche\u00e1l MacLiamm\u00f3ir<\/big><\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Dear Boy, What a superlative day for a funeral:<br \/>\nIt seems St Stephen&#8217;s Green put on the appareil<br \/>\nOf early Spring-time especially for me.<br \/>\nThat is no vanity: but &#8211; dare I say it &#8211; humility<br \/>\nIn the fell face of those nay-neighers who say we die<br \/>\nAt dying-time.  Die?  Why, I must needs cry<br \/>\nNo, no, no, no,<br \/>\nNow I am living whereas before &#8211; no &#8211;<br \/>\n&#8216;Twas but breathing, choking, croaking, singing,<br \/>\nSuperb sometimes but nevertheless but breathing:<br \/>\nYou should have seen the scene in University Church:<br \/>\nPacked to the hammer-beams with me left in the lurch<br \/>\nAll on my ownio up-front centre-stage;<br \/>\nPeople of every nationality in Ireland and of every age;<br \/>\nOld age and youth &#8211; Oh, everpresent, oldest, wished-for youth;<br \/>\nAnd old Dublin ladies telling their beads for old me; forsooth.<br \/>\n&#8216;Twould have fired the cockles of John Henry&#8217;s heart<br \/>\nAnd his mussels too: only Sarah Bernhardt<br \/>\nWas missing but I was so glad to see Marie Conmee<br \/>\nFresh, as always, as the morning sea.<br \/>\nWe paid a last farewell to dear Harcourt Terrace,<br \/>\nDear old, bedgraggled, doomed Harcourt Terrace<br \/>\nWhere I enjoyed, amongst the crocuses, a Continual Glimpse of Heaven<br \/>\nBy having, for a living partner, Hilton.<br \/>\nAround the corner the canal-waters from Athy gleamed<br \/>\nEngaged in their never-ending courtship of Ringsend.<br \/>\nThen onward to the Gate &#8211; and to the rose-cheeked ghost of Edward Longford;<br \/>\nI could not bear to look at Patrick Bedford.<br \/>\nOh tears there were, there and everywhere,<br \/>\nBut especially there; there outside the Gate where<br \/>\nFor fifty years we wooed the goddess of our art;<br \/>\nHow many, many nights she pierced my heart.<br \/>\n<i>Ach, n&iacute;l aon tinte&aacute;n mar do thinte&aacute;n f&eacute;in<\/i>: <sup>1<\/sup><br \/>\nThe Gate and the <i>Taibhdhearc<\/i> &#8211; each was our name;<br \/>\nI dreamed a dream of Jean Cocteau<br \/>\nLeaning against a wall in Killnamoe;<br \/>\nAnd so I voyaged through all the nations of Ireland with McMaster<br \/>\nAnd played in Cinderella an ugly, but oh so ugly, sister.<br \/>\nAh but we could not tarry for ever outside the Gate;<br \/>\nLife, as always, must go on or we&#8217;d be late<br \/>\nFor my rendezvous with my brave grave-diggers<br \/>\nWho were as shy but snappy as my best of dressers.<br \/>\nWe sped past the vast suburb of Clontarf &#8211; all those lives<br \/>\nFull of hard-working Brian Bor&uacute;s with their busy wives.<br \/>\nIn St Fintan&#8217;s Cemetery there was spray from the sea<br \/>\nAs well as from the noonday sun, and clay on me:<br \/>\nAnd a green carnation on my lonely oaken coffin.<br \/>\nLonely in heaven?  Yes, I must not soften<br \/>\nThe deep pain I feel at even a momentary separation<br \/>\nFrom my dear, sweet friends.  A green carnation<br \/>\nFor you all, dear boy; If you must weep, ba(w)ll;<br \/>\n<i>Sl&aacute;n agus Beannacht<\/i>:<sup>2<\/sup> Miche\u00e1l.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><i>March 1978<\/i><\/p>\n<p><sup>1<\/sup> But there&#8217;s no place like home.<br \/>\n<sup>2<\/sup> Farewell.<\/p>\n<p>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<small><em>Thank you so much for stopping by. If you like what I do, and if you feel inclined to support my work, here&#8217;s a link to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.venmo.com\/u\/Sheila-OMalley-3\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">my Venmo account<\/a>. 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