{"id":170697,"date":"2025-11-18T08:30:10","date_gmt":"2025-11-18T13:30:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=170697"},"modified":"2025-11-17T08:59:01","modified_gmt":"2025-11-17T13:59:01","slug":"graham-parker","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=170697","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I&#8217;m astonished that I have any audience at all, to be honest.&#8221; &#8212; Graham Parker"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/11111.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"570\" height=\"522\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-171971\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/11111.jpg 570w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/11111-200x183.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/11111-400x366.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/11111-100x92.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 570px) 100vw, 570px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\nMy first boyfriend was super into Graham Parker, and basically introduced me to his music. He was a constant in our (super unhappy and stressful) &#8220;household&#8221;. It was my brother, though, as always, who contextualized Parker for me, who got into Parker in an intellectual way, a let&#8217;s-break-it-down way, because when you are obsessed with something, you want to know why, you want to find the words. <\/p>\n<p>In 2019-2020, I posted my brother Brendan&#8217;s music essays from his old blogs. It started with his <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?tag=50-best-albums\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">50 Best Albums<\/a> list. I&#8217;d post one entry every Monday. #4 on his very interesting list was Graham Parker&#8217;s 1979 album <i>Squeezing Out Sparks<\/i>. (Those words always make me wince, considering what they mean in the context of the song of the same name.)<\/p>\n<p>And so I&#8217;d love to share my brother&#8217;s words on the subject of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=143537\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Graham Parker, the man and this album in particular.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/lSzJNQSkbi8\" title=\"YouTube video player\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><p>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<small><em>Thank you so much for stopping by. If you like what I do, and if you feel inclined to support my work, here&#8217;s a link to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.venmo.com\/u\/Sheila-OMalley-3\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">my Venmo account<\/a>. And I&#8217;ve launched a Substack, <a href=\"https:\/\/sheilaomalley.substack.com\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Sheila Variations 2.0<\/a>, if you&#8217;d like to subscribe.<\/em> <\/small><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/sheilaomalley.substack.com\/embed\" width=\"480\" height=\"320\" style=\"border:1px solid #EEE; background:white;\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My first boyfriend was super into Graham Parker, and basically introduced me to his music. He was a constant in our (super unhappy and stressful) &#8220;household&#8221;. 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