{"id":182974,"date":"2022-12-03T10:25:15","date_gmt":"2022-12-03T15:25:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=182974"},"modified":"2022-12-03T11:32:18","modified_gmt":"2022-12-03T16:32:18","slug":"november-2022-viewing-diary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=182974","title":{"rendered":"November 2022 Viewing Diary"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>Something in the Dirt<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Aaron Moorhead, Justin Benson)<br \/>\nI really liked this. If you like losing yourself in conspiracy theories &#8211; without being, like, a QAnon-type ready to shoot up a pizza parlor &#8211; then this is super fun. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rogerebert.com\/reviews\/something-in-the-dirt-movie-review-2022\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">I reviewed for Ebert<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/80-e1669903324208.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"293\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183729\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Argentina 1985<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Santiago Mitre)<br \/>\n<em>Argentina, 1985<\/em> is my kind of movie and I really liked it. I&#8217;m biased towards it already due to its subject matte: military dictatorships, courtroom\/investigative dramas, the catastrophe of the &#8220;disappeared&#8221; in Latin America, as well as an underdog public prosecutor facing death threats going up against a strong institutional edifice (the military, the juntas, the whole shebang), the lies people tell themselves, the lies people insist on believing in, because if they actually admitted the truth, they would have to acknowledge the horrors they helped support. Based on a true story. Like I said, I&#8217;m already biased towards something like this &#8211; but I felt it was really good, and moving, really good acting, etc.<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/313431941_10159292418062632_8660185059739355149_n-e1669903480609.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"326\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183730\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Unforgotten<\/em><\/strong> (2018-2021)<br \/>\nMum told me about this one. I decided to watch at least the pilot, and then, whaddya know, I binged the whole thing in a couple of days. It is EXCELLENT. <\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Unforgotten2_EP1_4-e1669903578140.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183731\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Eight is Enough<\/em><\/strong>, Season 5, episode 13, &#8220;Vows&#8221; (1981; d. Irving J. Moore)<br \/>\nThis was a revelation. I put up my post about Ralph Macchio on his birthday, where I write about an episode of <i>Eight is Enough<\/i> that saved my life. Knowing what I know now (that bipolar swarmed my brain at age 12, alongside my first period, cuz that&#8217;s how it happens for girls, good times) &#8230; I don&#8217;t think &#8220;saved my life&#8221; is an exaggeration. It&#8217;s amazing to me that I only saw the episode once &#8211; maybe one more time in re-runs? It&#8217;s not like <i>Eight is Enough<\/i> is in constant syndication rotation. It&#8217;s also not out on box set. I was never a big fan of the show, but I tuned in because of RALPH. And this one episode BURNED INTO MY SOUL. I posted about it on Instagram and &#8211; amazingly &#8211; a woman said that mp4s of each episode have been uploaded &#8211; and she provided a link. So I was able to watch it again! The Ralph Macchio post was written totally from memory: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=43650\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">look how much detail remains in my head<\/a>. Incredible: Watching the episode again, I was amazed at how much I remembered. It&#8217;s all accurate. That&#8217;s how much of an impression it made on me. The rest of the episode was like walking into an altered reality and it made me think, &#8220;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.. This was a hit show?&#8221;  It&#8217;s wild because &#8230; <i>there&#8217;s a laugh track<\/i>. And CLEARLY there isn&#8217;t an audience there. It&#8217;s very strange. And why are all these ADULTS hanging around the house?? And they all appear to be the same age!  Anyway, it was truly amazing to watch this episode again. Thank you random stranger on the internet!! I watched the silliness and had a moment where I said &#8211; to the episode &#8211; &#8220;Thank you for being there when I needed it.&#8221; Not kidding. <\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Unknown.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"299\" height=\"168\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183732\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Unknown.jpeg 299w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Unknown-200x112.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Unknown-100x56.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 299px) 100vw, 299px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The Glass Key<\/strong><\/em> (1942; d. Stuart Heisler)<br \/>\nAlan Ladd and Veronica Lake, together again. They had such amazing chemistry, particularly because he was so tight-lipped, tough, taciturn, wary. Here, he&#8217;s not as sociopathic as he is in <i>This Gun for Hire<\/i>, but compelling nonetheless. I love her. And Brian Donlevy is great too.<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/HelpfulHandmadeDwarfrabbit-size_restricted.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183733\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Conversations with a Killer: The John Wayne Gacy Tapes<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Joe Berlinger)<br \/>\nThe next installment of Joe Berlinger Serial Killers on Tape docuseries. I mean, it&#8217;s not an official series, but &#8230; I watched the Jeffrey Dahmer one last month, there was the Ted Bundy one, and now there&#8217;s the John Wayne Gacy one. I think this is my second time with this one. Amazing interviews: people who knew him at every stage. The guy was truly terrifying, a monster in our collective dreams. The tapes are chilling. <\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/john-wayne-gacy-1650993593221-e1669904546462.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"366\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183734\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Blue Dahlia<\/strong><\/em> (1946; d. George Marshall)<br \/>\nMore Alan Ladd and Veronica Lake. A haunting California noir: up and down the Pacific Coast Highway, from LA to Malibu and back, on dark nights &#8230; Amazing mood and setting. It&#8217;s post-WWII &#8211; JUST &#8211; and there is a LOT of anxiety, particularly about servicemen coming home to wives they haven&#8217;t seen for years. What have the women been getting up to? NOTHING GOOD. <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tumblr_niwt7fcA7X1rdfgw4o1_500.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"382\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183735\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\n<em><strong>Capturing the Killer Nurse<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Tim Travers Hawkins)<br \/>\nIn the season where everyone is watching all these great films &#8211; and I am too &#8211; I do want to recommend the new Netflix doc with the sensationalistic and yet truthful title &#8220;Capturing the Killer Nurse&#8221; about the investigation that finally led to the arrest of &#8220;nurse&#8221; Charles Cullen, who acted as an angel of death through multiple hospitals until finally one brave nurse\/co-worker not only figured it out but worked to help capture him and trap him.  You know how docuseries now and everything else are so drawwwwwn out and everything is 4 episodes long? Dammit, learn how to tell a story in an hour and a half like your ancestors. It&#8217;ll be better, I promise. Anyway, this one does its job and horrifyingly well in an hour and thirty.  There are a ton of questions that the doc doesn&#8217;t address (who IS this guy, and why did he do it?). Cullen admitted to killing 29 patients &#8211; but detectives believe he could have killed up to 400, there&#8217;s enough evidence point to it. There&#8217;s some pablum included about how he felt &#8220;unsafe&#8221; in his house as a kid and blah blah oh boo hoo. There&#8217;s a ton of audio footage of him talking to investigators, because once he was found out, he caved, and just admitted to everything, almost like it was a relief to just be who he really was, a heartless executioner. The doc really isn&#8217;t about him. It&#8217;s about the hospitals, his co-workers, and his victims. You get to know the victims and the pain this psycho caused. Even though I wanted a psychological profile, this really was the best choice I think to put the focus on 1. the victims 2. the nurses who worked with him who had no idea and who also saw little red flags but didn&#8217;t put it together because &#8230; how could you? and 3. the two detectives who finally decided to go after this guy and how they did it. It&#8217;s a very good story showing the very admirable work of two New Jersey detectives who had no idea about all the medical stuff, couldn&#8217;t even read a chart &#8211; but knew enough to get the help they needed to interpret all this data for them. They they had to get the &#8220;smoking gun&#8221; and\/or syringe in order to make this thing stick, and they WORKED this very difficult case in the face of sinister hospital cover-ups and their own incomprehension in terms of medical language. One brave nurse &#8211; at great risk to herself &#8211; dug into the records, printed stuff out in secret and helped the detectives SEE what she saw in those damning charts. It&#8217;s grisly stuff and terrifying but the doc isn&#8217;t just interested in the scandal. The director really goes at the moral terror a case like this causes, and it allows for that moral and ethical horror to emanate. I watch a lot of these docuseries and most are so-so and\/or make me think &#8220;is there any reason you couldn&#8217;t tell this story in an hour and a half?&#8221; Here&#8217;s the killer with the two detectives responsible for putting this case together &#8211; Tim Braun and Danny Baldwin.<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/315815763_10159328543432632_6951639265552208123_n-e1669905081534.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"368\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183736\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>T\u00e1r<\/em><\/strong> (2022; d. Todd Field)<br \/>\nWhat a film! There are so many movies that self-consciously (and sometimes self-importantly) address &#8220;how we live now&#8221; and reviewers call them &#8220;timely&#8221; or &#8220;prescient&#8221; or whatever &#8211; but, imo, the majority of those movies will sink like a stone and be forever forgotten, attached only to their own time. Just you wait: in a couple years, words like &#8220;gaslight&#8221; will be like &#8220;Oh wow, that&#8217;s so 2018.&#8221; You&#8217;ll be able to nail stuff down to almost a particular MONTH. A movie like <i>Casablanca<\/i> was designed to be entertaining, but it REALLY was about the plight of refugees, clustering in Morocco, trying to get to Portugal. Now THAT is a successful way to slide in a relevant message, without sacrificing the movie&#8217;s intent. <em>T\u00e1r<\/em> is the story of a brilliant famous conductor (Cate Blanchett) whose life unravels in a matter of months, due to a couple of accusations &#8211; one from a former protegee who ended up killing herself &#8211; and then there are students who record her lectures, and splice &#8220;inflammatory&#8221; comments together, to make Lydia look terrible. She&#8217;s famous but she is not well-liked. It&#8217;s the story of her &#8211; yes &#8211; and her girlfriend (played by the superb Nina Hoss) but for me &#8230; it&#8217;s ABOUT how we live now, with the constant threat of accusation. People are fired because of the accusation. No due process. No opportunity to learn or grow, or even apologize and course-correct. You must vanish forever. But &#8230; people can&#8217;t vanish forever. They&#8217;re still alive. There&#8217;s a ritual to all of this: a ritual of denouncements, and even if the person is your friend, you must denounce them. Scandals follow people from job to job, and etc.  EVEN IF the person apologized, the scandal doesn&#8217;t die. (Look at what just happened with Letitia Wright. <i>She apologized. Two years ago.<\/i> The internet will never ever let her forget.) <em>T\u00e1r<\/em> is not explicitly trying to make points about how we live now. It&#8217;s more like &#8220;how we live now&#8221; has seeped into the pores of the film itself: it&#8217;s a mood, an atmosphere, an electrical buzz in the air we breathe. Lydia is famous. She is not some random citizen with 200 Instagram followers who wore an inappropriate Halloween costume in high school and now can&#8217;t get into grad school because of it. Lydia IS difficult, she DID behave badly with her protegee, and she DID make those comments in the lectures, although imo they weren&#8217;t that bad. They were off-the-cuff comments, maybe a little cranky and imperious, but &#8230; enough for an entire life to be trashed? (At one point, one of her students says to her, &#8220;As a BIPOC pangender person, I won&#8217;t listen to Bach because of his patriarchal attitudes and how poorly he treated women.&#8221; Her response is along the lines of what you would imagine. The clips go viral. But again, the movie isn&#8217;t ABOUT that: it&#8217;s more about what this free-floating sense of indiscriminate PERSECUTION actually feels like on a daily level. Because make no mistake: it is something new. Being &#8220;canceled&#8221; is not new &#8211; see, <i>Scarlet Letter<\/i>, see the village stocks, see &#8230; the history of humanity &#8230; but the internet super-charges the situation. You can&#8217;t even move to another town and try to start again. <i>Tar<\/i>  unfolds almost like a horror movie, and Lydia&#8217;s rapid deterioration comes out of this free-floating indiscriminate sense of threat, AND from the feeling that no matter what you do or say, no apology will be sufficient. It&#8217;s all there, in the cinematography, the exquisite sound design, the colors allowed in the palette (the palette is very strict), the sense of psychological dread &#8230; even if Lydia isn&#8217;t aware of it, we in the audience ARE. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rogerebert.com\/reviews\/tar-movie-review-2022\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Let me point you to Glenn Kenny&#8217;s excellent review.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tumblr_8e809c2fc6c0259486d513bf4e6c0e32_1057b65f_1280.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"406\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183738\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The Post<\/strong><\/em> (2017; d. Steven Spielberg)<br \/>\nLove it. Have seen it about 5 times by now. It&#8217;s comfort food. I needed it this month. <\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tumblr_p1enatApsR1qzs7uio4_r1_540.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"540\" height=\"297\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183742\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>There There<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Andrew Bujalski)<br \/>\nSpeaking of movies trying to address &#8220;how we live now&#8221; &#8211; <i>There There<\/i> was filmed during COVID, with none of the actors &#8211; or director or cinematographer &#8211; being in the same place at the same time. It felt more like an experiment than a movie &#8211; that&#8217;s not necessarily a bad thing, but it didn&#8217;t work for me. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rogerebert.com\/reviews\/there-there-movie-review-2022\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">I reviewed for Ebert.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/merlin_216471807_a18f4cbd-b609-48b1-a647-197e2c96d7a8-jumbo-e1670070465111.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183769\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Lady Chatterley&#8217;s Lover<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Laure de Clermont-Tonnerre)<br \/>\nI&#8217;ve seen so many adaptations of this. It&#8217;s hard to make it seem fresh. It&#8217;s hard to make it, in general. This is really good! <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rogerebert.com\/reviews\/lady-chatterleys-lover-movie-review-2022\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">I reviewed for Ebert.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/N100828_EN-GB_LCLvsPC_x_thumbnail.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"681\" height=\"383\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183770\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/N100828_EN-GB_LCLvsPC_x_thumbnail.jpeg 681w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/N100828_EN-GB_LCLvsPC_x_thumbnail-200x112.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/N100828_EN-GB_LCLvsPC_x_thumbnail-400x225.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/N100828_EN-GB_LCLvsPC_x_thumbnail-100x56.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 681px) 100vw, 681px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Saturday&#8217;s Children<\/strong><\/em> (1940; d. Vincent Sherman)<br \/>\nJohn Garfield and Anne Shirley star as a young married couple struggling to make ends meet. Claude Rains plays the girl&#8217;s father, in a wonderfully warm performance. Garfield has to play a shy tongue-tied man, perhaps a bit of a stretch, but he makes it work. I loved the section where they were dating but not dating &#8230; they were just &#8220;hanging out&#8221; &#8230; they were friends &#8230; Uh-huh. &#8220;Friends&#8221;. And she kept insisting they were just hanging out, but she didn&#8217;t realize she was really falling for him, and he was too shy and polite to make a real move. Her family can see what&#8217;s going on before she can. A very realistic film, about regular people living regular lives, which &#8211; of course &#8211; are not regular at all.<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/s-l500.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"406\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183771\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/s-l500.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/s-l500-200x162.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/s-l500-400x325.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/s-l500-100x81.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The House on Telegraph Hill<\/strong><\/em> (1951; d. Robert Wise)<br \/>\nThis film is so disturbing. So much anxiety in it. Anxiety in every frame. <\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tumblr_ocvf3ao8Rm1solsulo2_500.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183774\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>EO<\/em><\/strong> (2022; d. Jerzy Skolimowski)<br \/>\nFor me, there are two best films of the year: Jafar Panahi&#8217;s <i>No Bears<\/i> and this one. I was overwhelmed by <i>EO<\/i>. It hit me way harder than I was prepared for. It&#8217;s a movie about a donkey. Okay. I love donkeys. Who doesn&#8217;t love donkeys? The film is told from the POV of the donkey, known as EO &#8230; he is first seen performing in a circus. Then the circus is shut down and he finds himself in another place. And then another place. The universe is unpredictable, capricious, whimsical in sometimes sinister ways, as seen through an animal&#8217;s eyes. My favorite review of this special film by a Polish master is <a href=\"https:\/\/time.com\/6235120\/eo-movie-review\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">my friend Stephanie Zacharek&#8217;s review in <i>Time<\/i><\/a>. Please see <i>EO<\/i>!<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/eo-image-social-featured.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1400\" height=\"700\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183775\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/eo-image-social-featured.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/eo-image-social-featured-200x100.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/eo-image-social-featured-400x200.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/eo-image-social-featured-100x50.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/eo-image-social-featured-768x384.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\nAnd here&#8217;s the trailer:<\/p>\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/rrBeSQbdXmw\" title=\"YouTube video player\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>\n<strong><em>Barbarian<\/em><\/strong> (2022; d. Zach Cregger)<br \/>\nAllison had seen this so she made me watch it, and then <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/ClOS01ROgkN\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">filmed me as I watched it<\/a>. Freaking out. This is how we like to watch movies. We have never before explored our mutual love of horror movies so this was a lot of fun. Justin Long is so good. Interesting fact: I got curious about the director of this, especially when the &#8220;barbarian&#8221; appeared. I wondered: okay, this person who made this is REALLY grappling with some stuff and I wonder what&#8217;s going on. I don&#8217;t know anything about Cregger, so I looked him up. He&#8217;s super young. He comes from the world of comedy. I instantly understood. If this was made by a young woman, it would have &#8220;made sense&#8221;, or at least a certain kind of sense. But that this was made by a young man tells me that he is fully aware of what has been happening, he is interrogating his part in it (coincidental and otherwise) AND he is attempting to enter the mindset of women, to understand what life must be like. Because it&#8217;s DIFFERENT. If you imagine the roles reversed in <i>Barbarian<\/i>: if she was there first, and he showed up? No way would she have let him in. This isn&#8217;t unfair. This is &#8230; how we&#8217;re built, based on millennia of learned experience. From the youngest pre-verbal age, you start to absorb messages and moods and feelings. Biology plays a part too. So much so you&#8217;re not aware of it, it&#8217;s inside of you, it IS you. I speak from experience. Don&#8217;t tell me my experience of living <i>in my own body<\/i> isn&#8217;t valid. I would never do that to someone else. Ever. I read an interview with Cregger who said he read Gavin de Becker&#8217;s <i>The Gift of Fear<\/i> &#8211; !!! &#8211; and it made him aware of the level of threat women live with, walk around with, every day, all day. (I would recommend all men reading that book! It helped me enormously. A cop gave it to me when I was 25, basically like: &#8220;Listen to when you feel fear. It&#8217;s a gift. You&#8217;re under threat. Trust it.&#8221; Game-changer for me. I recommend it for everyone, though.)Every moment involves a threat assessment, even with openly friendly men (maybe even especially with openly friendly men). It&#8217;s wired into us. I don&#8217;t even think about it. And so Cregger decided to make a movie about this, and incorporating every &#8220;red flag&#8221; he could possibly think up. So smart. The &#8220;barbarian&#8221; is fascinating: Allison said she hadn&#8217;t thought much about it on her first watch: it was just this scary creature. Second watch though: she got it. This movie is really ABOUT something. It&#8217;s also scary as shit. Very well done. Incredible that this is Cregger&#8217;s first film.<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/crawling-barbarian.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"498\" height=\"278\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183777\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\n<em><strong>The Babadook<\/strong><\/em> (2014; d. Jennifer Kent)<br \/>\nAnd so after <i>Barbarian<\/i>, I returned the favor and showed Allison <i>The Babadook<\/i>, which she had never seen. I&#8217;ve said this before: it&#8217;s one of the scariest movies I&#8217;ve ever seen, and my first time watching it, about half of the way through, I remember thinking, wildly, &#8220;I honestly don&#8217;t know how much more of this I can take.&#8221; Beyond the scary factor, the film is one of the most insightful and fully sustained metaphors for mental illness I can think of. It&#8217;s along the lines of <i>The Shining<\/i>, which also works as fully sustained metaphor. What REALLY puts <i>Babadook<\/i> into the canon of films-about-mental-illness is the final scene. I couldn&#8217;t fully absorb the final scene the first time I watched it. I don&#8217;t think I realized the import. But since then, I have thought of it often. That final scene is a perfect metaphor for what it is like, living with a mental illness. It really is a monster in the basement. And it&#8217;s very scary. But you have to find a way to live with it. And soothe it. You can&#8217;t run. Anyway, it was so fun watching this with Allison. It starts slow. Maybe a little creepy but nothing too alarming. Allison said at one point, &#8220;So I guess the terror will eventually ascend?&#8221; I kept my mouth shut. I wanted to say, &#8220;Oh just you WAIT &#8230;.&#8221; 20 minutes later, Allison is literally screaming bloody murder, so much so that her poor dog Harper came over and sat next to me, absolutely petrified at what was happening to Her Person. Allison was moaning and crying, &#8220;NO NO NO&#8221; and it was totally glorious. <\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-babadook-monster.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"498\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183779\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Three Wise Men and a Baby<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Terry Ingram)<br \/>\nThen Allison showed me one of &#8220;her&#8221; movies. I absolutely loved it. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=183663\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Wrote about it here<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/90.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"840\" height=\"560\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183780\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/90.jpeg 840w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/90-200x133.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/90-400x267.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/90-100x67.jpeg 100w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/90-768x512.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>God Forbid: The Sex Scandal That Brought Down a Dynasty<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Billy Corben)<br \/>\nWhat a truly gross story. I remember following this one in the news, although much of it is new to me. These people are so disgusting. Not a particularly well-made documentary. It can&#8217;t really decide on a tone. <\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/im-651311-e1670075807692.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"525\" class=\"size-full wp-image-183789\" \/> <\/p>\n<p>\n<em><strong>Pepsi, Where&#8217;s My Jet?<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Andrew Renzi)<br \/>\nAllison and I tripped over this one and decided to watch it. We were absolutely swept away by it. It&#8217;s a 4-part doc about the kid who noticed a loophole in a Pepsi-points commercial, and started the process of trying to acquire the fighter jet he believed Pepsi had promised him. You wouldn&#8217;t think that this arcana would warrant 4 parts but &#8230; the way Renzi has structured it, it&#8217;s an absolutely fascinating look at not just the situation, but all the people involved. He got interviews with everyone. And it&#8217;s not just the information that is interesting &#8211; we were so drawn in to the characters. Every single person is so interesting. Michael Avanatti shows up. The man is everywhere. I don&#8217;t know if I can put into words why this works so well. Allison and I kept talking about it. It&#8217;s the APPROACH that makes it, and that&#8217;s all on Renzi. We absolutely loved this. It even manages to be legitimately moving. And &#8230; it made me love people. Now that&#8217;s something you can&#8217;t say every day.<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Pepsi__Where_s_My_Jet__S1_E4_00_37_34_06-e1670074014113.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"292\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183782\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Navalny<\/em><\/strong> (2022; d. Daniel Roher)<br \/>\nI&#8217;d been dying to see this. Allison and I watched. One of the documentaries of the year. I had been following along with Navalny and his opposition group before he was poisoned on the plane. A brazen act. Alexei Navalny is now in prison, high-security, serving out a nine-year bogus sentence. The whole thing is a sham. Taking place in broad daylight. Putin does not give a fuck. He acts with impunity, he does not wait for cover of darkness. When Navalny was poisoned, like many I watched the footage of him moaning and howling on the plane. I am well versed in Putin-KGB-Russian treachery, and yet I still somehow was shocked. I remember thinking &#8220;Oh my God, they didn&#8217;t DARE. Holy SHIT.&#8221; But they did dare. This documentary is not told from a distance and this is one of its distinguishing characteristics. Navalny did not die from the poison attack. Germany literally sent a plane to get him out of the Siberian hospital where he was under lock and key. Thank you, Germany. So the documentary crew is embedded with Navalny and his family in the year following the attack, Navalny living in exile, running his opposition group through the internet, and planning his return to Russia. He knew what would happen if he returned. But he had to return. He is aware that he is a SYMBOLIC person. Symbols matter. He had to return. I have been an admirer of Alexei Navalny for a long time, and what is happening to him is outrageous and disgraceful. And, not to be mean, but when I hear people calling America the worst place to live, and how oppressive it is here, and how we have no freedom of speech here &#8230; (people literally write op-ed columns in major newspapers complaining about how there is no freedom of speech in this country. HOW can you have ZERO cognitive dissonance when you are PUBLISHING a piece about how you have no FREEDOM OF SPEECH?) &#8230; anyway, when I hear this, I think of Iran or Russia or Turkmenistan or &#8230; pick your poison. It&#8217;s important to address injustices in America, of course, but it is also important to not be too American-centric in your critique, and realize that there are many people- millions &#8211; who have it way way way worse, and THEY need our support. They are also a cautionary tale, of what it can look like when things get REALLY bad. This is a heartbreaking and very important film.<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/navalny-sundance-2022-e1670074642479.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"293\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183785\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\n<em><strong>The Fabelmans<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Steven Spielberg)<br \/>\nFirst <i>West Side Story<\/i>, then this. He keeps getting better and better. Honestly, this might be one of my favorite Speilbergs. He&#8217;s always personal. But this is <i>personal<\/i> personal. It&#8217;s deep and empathetic and detailed. Wonderful performances. <\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/playing-a-film-sammy-fabelman.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"498\" height=\"280\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183786\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>20\/20 Tainted Love<\/strong><\/em> (2022)<br \/>\nThis was a crazy story. Allison and I relax by watching 20\/20, Dateline, or 48 Hours.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Holy Spider<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Ali Abbasi)<br \/>\nWill also be on my top 10, which I have been adding to, subtracting from, making tough choices, over the last month. But this has a permanent spot. <\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Holy-Spider-scaled-e1670075365173.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"400\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183787\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Saint Omer<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Alice Diop)<br \/>\nAnother one I had been itching to see, particularly since it played at Indie Memphis and I couldn&#8217;t go this year, but followed along with all the posts. (<i>Saint Omer<\/i> screened there, and won big there.) Diop is a filmmaker to watch. She attended the trial in 2015, of a Senegalese woman &#8211; who had immigrated to France &#8211; accused of leaving her baby on the beach to drown. Why would she do such a thing? Diop was fascinated by the story and all of its intersections: emigration, assimilation, isolation, womanhood, the whole nine yards. The two lead actors &#8211; who barely have half a credit between them &#8211; are absolutely extraordinary. I can&#8217;t say enough good stuff about this one. This is Diop&#8217;s narrative feature debut. Here&#8217;s the trailer: <\/p>\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/LqzJye82f78\" title=\"YouTube video player\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Decision to Leave<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Park Chan-wook)<br \/>\nI had been dying to see this one. Unlike everyone and their mother, I wasn&#8217;t crazy about <i>The Handmaiden<\/i>, although I recognize the skill of its approach and that crazy structure. <i>Decision to Leave<\/i> &#8211; a noir-esque film, with a possible femme fatale, and an obsessed miserable detective who <i>can&#8217;t let it go<\/i> &#8211; is a much stronger film. I found it enchanting, intriguing, charismatic, gorgeous to look at. Riveting. <\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tumblr_efdd8503165546427d4f8ea928a51fba_1802d8ff_540.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"540\" height=\"350\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183794\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>All the Beauty and the Bloodshed<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Laura Poitras)<br \/>\nLots of great docs this year. This is the best. Or, my favorite, let&#8217;s say that. A portrait of photographer Nan Goldin&#8217;s life &#8211; first of all &#8211; and it&#8217;s been a crazy life &#8211; as well as her campaign to take down the Sackler family, responsible for the opioid crisis. The Sacklers will not face jail time. But because of the efforts of Nan Goldin &#8211; and the <i>New Yorker<\/i> writer Patrick Radden Keefe (&#8220;Empire of Pain&#8221;) &#8211; interviewed for the doc &#8211; as well as people like Courtney Love &#8211; and the series <i>Dopesick<\/i> &#8211; seriously, it&#8217;s been a concentrated campaign of character assassination, and in this case, I am fully on board &#8211; because of all of this, the Sacklers name is now mud. They cannot hide anymore. Goldin&#8217;s activism comes out of her Act Up days in the nightmare of AIDS: very very smart protests, symbolic, peaceful, but powerful. Great film. Here&#8217;s the trailer:<\/p>\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/DXgF7bskfvo\" title=\"YouTube video player\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>\n<em><strong>The Eternal Daughter<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Joanna Hogg)<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.rogerebert.com\/reviews\/the-eternal-daughter-movie-review-2022\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">I reviewed for Ebert<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/The-Eternal-Daughter-Tilda-Swinton-scaled-1-e1670077418666.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"356\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183795\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Women Talking<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Sarah Polley)<br \/>\nThis one isn&#8217;t out yet, but I&#8217;m a critic so I get a screener. Based on a book, which is based on a true (and horrifying) story. I&#8217;ll be reviewing this one so I&#8217;ll save my comments for then. Here&#8217;s the trailer.<\/p>\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pD0mFhMqDCE\" title=\"YouTube video player\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>No Bears<\/strong><\/em> (2022; d. Jafar Panahi)<br \/>\nAnother one of Panahi&#8217;s illegal films, made and produced following the lifetime ban on making movies (handed down in 2012). I don&#8217;t even want to say this out loud but it might be Panahi&#8217;s final film. He was arrested &#8211; again &#8211; in July. He is being held in the notorious Evin Prison. I am very VERY concerned. The film is one of his best (and with him, that&#8217;s saying a lot). With each of the films he&#8217;s made &#8211; secretly &#8211; under the ban (This Is Not a Film, Closed Curtain, Taxi, Three Faces &#8211; and now this) &#8211; he has gotten more and more bold (although he was always a bold filmmaker). His life is an act of boldness. <i>No Bears<\/i> takes place on the wild borderland of Iran and Turkey. You can literally look across the wildlands and see the other country &#8211; freedom, escape. But it&#8217;s very dangerous. Just the mere fact that Panahi filmed the film in such a place speaks volumes. My heart is breaking. I can&#8217;t bear the thought that this might be the last time we hear from him. Here&#8217;s the trailer.<\/p>\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/mWx8teulomE\" title=\"YouTube video player\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Something in the Dirt (2022; d. Aaron Moorhead, Justin Benson) I really liked this. If you like losing yourself in conspiracy theories &#8211; without being, like, a QAnon-type ready to shoot up a pizza parlor &#8211; then this is super &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=182974\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2627,4,31],"tags":[2651,2457,2209,2210,2672,510,2587,697,2493,2546,2208,2572,2206,2558,2548,14,1255,2480,1116,2638,2678,276,2470,2205,371,150,2549,2509,484,2319,200,2637],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/182974"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=182974"}],"version-history":[{"count":49,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/182974\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":183811,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/182974\/revisions\/183811"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=182974"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=182974"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=182974"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}