{"id":186539,"date":"2023-05-11T11:29:32","date_gmt":"2023-05-11T15:29:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=186539"},"modified":"2026-04-28T10:50:29","modified_gmt":"2026-04-28T14:50:29","slug":"snapshots-82","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=186539","title":{"rendered":"Snapshots"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s been a while. March and April were a whirlwind. February too. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212; I worked on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.criterion.com\/films\/29632-after-hours\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">this<\/a>. It was a challenging one, and a little different for me. I loved the challenge. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Michael messaged me (you know. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=35814\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Michael<\/a>. This <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=126321\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Michael<\/a>.) when he heard the news about <i>After Hours<\/i> and he was flipping out. It&#8217;s his favorite movie of all time. I asked him &#8220;Did we talk about that ever??&#8221; He said he didn&#8217;t think we did. Imagine the weirdness of this. Our relationship is so strange and special. We were CHILDREN when we &#8220;went out&#8221; (I mean, not literally, but, whatever.), and here we are, still in touch, and I am hired by Criterion to write the booklet essay for his favorite movie. It&#8217;s perfect.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Speaking of Michael, he wrote <i>Dungeons and Dragons: Honor Among Thieves<\/i>! There were all these red carpet pictures of him and I&#8217;m super proud. When it opened at the theatre down the street for me, there was a line down the block of D&#038;D fans, all dressed up, waiting to see it. I sent Michael a pic. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212; I went to Ebertfest. It&#8217;s been years because of the pandemic. It was a last-minute decision. I decided to go for multiple reasons. 2023 is my 10-year anniversary going to Ebertfest &#8211; the same way it was my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=186266\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">10-year anniversary<\/a> going nuts in Memphis and getting diagnosed bipolar. I went to Memphis this year at the same time to commemorate how far I have come. I thought, &#8220;what the hell, let&#8217;s do the same for Ebertfest.&#8221; The first year I went, I was still so out of my mind, in the first month of being diagnosed, and &#8230; Mum came with me. I don&#8217;t remember how that decision was made. In retrospect, I think she came to just support me. (sob.) She ended up coming to Ebertfest for 4, 5 years in a row. It was this yearly thing we did. The other reason I suddenly decided to go: there are so many people I only saw once a year &#8211; Ebertfest people &#8211; people I really like, people I looked forward to seeing. The last time I went to Ebertfest was 2018 or 2019, I can&#8217;t remember, and I had no idea then I should be saying GOODBYE to all these people, other audience members, panelists, ushers, all the people I looked forward to seeing. So I was excited. I flew to Chicago, Mitchell picked me up at O&#8217;Hare, and we drove down to Champaign-Urbana together. This will be his third time accompanying me. We only stayed two days of the festival and it felt like we were there a week. The opening night film was <i>Nine Days<\/i> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.rogerebert.com\/reviews\/nine-days-movie-review-2021\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">which I reviewed<\/a>), and had a great time interviewing the talented director Edson Oda and executive producer Jason Michael Berman onstage after the screening. It was incredible seeing that beautiful film on a large screen (one of the largest), and to FEEL the audience listening around me &#8211; 1200, 1300 people listening closely &#8211; it&#8217;s one of my favorite sounds in the world. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Spent a couple days in Chicago afterwards with Mitchell and Christopher. We lazed about, we walked along the lake shore (experiencing a lightning-fast and sudden blizzard &#8211; horizontally driving snow and everything), we got together with Emma and her boyfriend Ben, it was a wonderful (albeit short) visit. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212; I&#8217;m in a <em>Ulysses<\/em> reading group this year. It&#8217;s been tough to keep up, but I am doing the reading and having an absolute BLAST with it. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Meanwhile, I was getting ready for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=186503\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">this<\/a>. It was postponed a couple of times for various reasons but we finally got the date nailed down. I prepared my notes for my introductory speech. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212; MEANWHILE, in the middle of all this, I got a message from Criterion that Martin Scorsese wanted to talk to me. Now we have already made contact &#8211; or, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=175368\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">he has made contact with me<\/a> &#8211; and I have met him on a couple of occasions (the 50th anniversary gala of the Film Society at Licoln Center, and a couple of the NYFCC dinner awards) but I am sure he wouldn&#8217;t remember me. He only knows me now from the <i>Raging Bull<\/i> video-essay and now the <i>After Hours<\/i> essay. He has to approve everything on these Criterion releases. Everything I wrote was sent to him for approval and\/or notes. So. He wanted to talk. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212; A couple weeks passed. I was in contact with one of his assistants. He was busy. Of course. Marty is always busy. But finally a time was found. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Martin Scorsese called me and we proceeded to talk for forty minutes. About everything. He talked to me about my Raging Bull essay and we talked a lot about After Hours, but then we talked about other things. I made him laugh. He said at one point, &#8220;I grew up in Little Italy&#8211;&#8221; and I wanted to say, &#8220;I know, Marty. We all know.&#8221; He was funny and extremely nice. It was amazing. I went into the call nervous. But about five minutes in, I was no longer nervous. He put me at ease. He told me the next time we meet to please introduce myself using the words &#8216;Raging Bull After Hours&#8217; so he would be sure to remember me. &#8220;I&#8217;m old.&#8221; he confessed. And you KNOW I will. It was incredible. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Five days later I was introducing Viva Las Vegas at the Paris Theatre in New York. It was a great event. Great turnout. Lots of friends, lots of people I didn&#8217;t know. My speech went great. The movie was so much fun. The whole thing couldn&#8217;t have gone better. Went out for drinks afterwards with a random group of my friends, none of whom knew each other outside of me &#8211; so we all bonded together, and became a group as we ate and drank. It&#8217;s my favorite thing. People meeting and connecting. I was so happy.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; To re-cap: In the same week I<br \/>\n1. had a 40-minute phone conversation with Martin Scorsese<br \/>\nand<br \/>\n2. introduced Viva Las Vegas at the Paris Theatre. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212; It was only on the following day when it occurred to me: &#8220;Okay so &#8230; for this week at least &#8230; I&#8217;ve been living the dream.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s been a while. March and April were a whirlwind. February too. &#8212; I worked on this. It was a challenging one, and a little different for me. I loved the challenge. &#8212; Michael messaged me (you know. Michael. 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