{"id":199580,"date":"2025-05-29T09:37:09","date_gmt":"2025-05-29T13:37:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=199580"},"modified":"2025-05-30T19:09:46","modified_gmt":"2025-05-30T23:09:46","slug":"tbt-nyc-what-is-it-about-you-youre-big-youre-loud-youre-tough","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=199580","title":{"rendered":"#TBT &#8220;NYC, what is it about you? You&#8217;re big! You&#8217;re loud! You&#8217;re tough!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3217703917_f567c0c290_o-e1748525466966.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"650\" height=\"510\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-199581\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3217703917_f567c0c290_o-e1748525466966.jpg 650w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3217703917_f567c0c290_o-e1748525466966-200x157.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3217703917_f567c0c290_o-e1748525466966-400x314.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3217703917_f567c0c290_o-e1748525466966-100x78.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3218554042_26c937e2d3_o-e1748525485700.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"503\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-199582\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3218554042_26c937e2d3_o-e1748525485700.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3218554042_26c937e2d3_o-e1748525485700-200x168.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3218554042_26c937e2d3_o-e1748525485700-400x335.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3218554042_26c937e2d3_o-e1748525485700-100x84.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3218554240_39484ea85d_o-e1748525494449.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"472\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-199583\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3218554240_39484ea85d_o-e1748525494449.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3218554240_39484ea85d_o-e1748525494449-200x157.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3218554240_39484ea85d_o-e1748525494449-400x315.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/3218554240_39484ea85d_o-e1748525494449-100x79.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\nMy first trip to New York City. I am 10, 11 years old. My parents put me on the train <i>by myself<\/i> &#8230; and a couple hours later I strolled, dazed, into Penn Station. This was an era when you did not want to be in Penn Station, even in the daytime, even as an adult. I am amazed at my parents for doing this. It&#8217;s a very Gen X moment. It was a blast, though! I loved being on my own. Having the train pull away was a wild adventure! Being by myself! Having to know when to get off the train, figure out the bathrooms, the whole thing, was very exciting at age 10. <\/p>\n<p>I stayed with my aunt Regina. Regina is one of the primary inspirations and influences in my life. She is an actress and a singer, and so many of the O&#8217;Malley kids in my generation who became artists &#8211; musicians, actors, singers &#8211; say &#8220;well, Regina was doing it, so we could do it too.&#8221; In my family being an actor was not some weird &#8220;bohemian&#8221; off-the-map thing to do. I spent my childhood going to see her &#8211; and her friends &#8211; in shows. We all did. Choosing to be an actor seemed risky of course but it also just seemed like a job you could actually have. It made a big difference in outlook. <\/p>\n<p>My aunt Regina was probably 23 or 24 when I visited her. At the time she seemed so GROWN UP. I think of myself at 23, and, yeah, there wasn&#8217;t a lot of grown-up-ness going on. She did such a great job though! She took me to the Metropolitan Museum, we walked around the Village (I think she lived in the Village, I&#8217;d have to ask her), there I am standing in front of the famed &#8220;Cobble Court house&#8221; in Greenwich Village &#8211; which is still there! &#8211; and, most importantly, she bought tickets to <i>Annie<\/i>, which was &#8211; as Anne of Green Gables would say &#8211; an &#8220;epoch&#8221; in my life. <\/p>\n<p>Because of when I grew up, I don&#8217;t have a bazillion pictures of every event in my childhood. The pictures I have are the pictures that exist. These are the pictures I have of this important trip, when I stepped out by myself. And my aunt Regina was there to capture it, to show me around, to keep me safe, to show me the world.<\/p>\n<p>Anyone who guesses the title reference gets a prize. Well, no, not really. No prize. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My first trip to New York City. I am 10, 11 years old. My parents put me on the train by myself &#8230; and a couple hours later I strolled, dazed, into Penn Station. 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