{"id":2130,"date":"2004-11-27T07:07:00","date_gmt":"2004-11-27T12:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=2130"},"modified":"2011-06-05T14:11:03","modified_gmt":"2011-06-05T18:11:03","slug":"i-been-away-a-long-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=2130","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I been away a long time&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(Quick &#8211; someone guess which book that &#8220;last line&#8221; is from!!)<\/p>\n<p>I been away a long time, indeed.  I am still away.  Too many stories to tell.  I am CLOGGED with stories.  It is inSANE how many stories I have.  (Carrie, that one was for you.)<\/p>\n<p>I have finally met Carrie (of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.broomofanger.net\/\">Broom of Anger <\/a>fame) &#8230; and her husband and scrumptiously cute little girl.  They were all generous enough to put us up in Belfast.  I still haven&#8217;t quite processed all of it &#8230; but I first must say:  thank you thank you to Carrie et al for your generosity, your kindness, your awesome sight-seeing skills, your tremendous Bloody Marys (which, obviously, I had heard much about), and for &#8211; in general &#8211; having us into your home.  It meant a great deal.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll write a bit more about all of that when I have time.  We went to Bobby Sands&#8217; grave.  In the Milltown Cemetery, a place I feel like I know, a place I have heard so much about it, seen pictures of &#8230; it&#8217;s a place that lives in my imagination, my psyche &#8230; and I finally got to go. It&#8217;s something else, I&#8217;ll tell you.<\/p>\n<p>Carrie&#8217;s daughter, in her adorable little fleece kitten hat, and her fleece mittens, chattered up a storm as we walked up and down the aisle of hunger-strikers&#8217; graves &#8230; her wee laugh chiming into the air.  One of the famous Bobby Sands quotes is (and forgive me if I get it a bit wrong): &#8220;Our revenge will be the laughter of our children.&#8221;  Carrie mentioned to her husband and to us later (and it was quite a moving moment) that the laughter of the wee girl in the cemetery was Sands&#8217; dream come true.  His revenge.  A small girl, in a fleece hat, standing by his grave, laughing.  A happy girl.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and obviously &#8211; anyone who follows Irish politics will know that a hell of a lot is going on up in Belfast right now &#8230; everyone waiting for a deal.  We went to Sinn Fein headquarters, just to take a look, and there was a BBC truck parked outside, just waiting. Hanging around waiting for a decision.  Our taxi driver pointed out Gerry Adams&#8217; car.  &#8220;That&#8217;s his car &#8211; he must be in there right now.&#8221;  Haven&#8217;t heard anything yet &#8230; I think a decision is still pending &#8230; but it&#8217;s very much on everyone&#8217;s minds here.<\/p>\n<p>Not to mention the chaos in the Ukraine right now.  That news is on everyone&#8217;s lips as well.<\/p>\n<p>More to tell, obviously.  Just wanted to get a quick note out there.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a grey and chilly morning in Dublin &#8230; it&#8217;s my birthday &#8230; I&#8217;ve got a hot cup of coffee beside me.  Last night I got together with a guy I met in Glendalough  and we were out until all hours of the night, talking and drinking and laughing and making out in a hilarious night club with an amazing light show, pounding music which has rendered me half-deaf, and NO ONE dancing.  It was a multi-million-pound light show for &#8230;. nobody.   We had a blast.<\/p>\n<p>The street I&#8217;m living on at the moment is lined with gorgeous old Georgian-type houses and black wrought-iron gates, very much <i>The Dead<\/i> kind of atmosphere, if you get my drift.  I love it.<\/p>\n<p>I hope everyone in the States had a very happy Thanksgiving.  What has been very sweet, and very nice, is the amount of people here who have wished Allison and I a happy Thanksgiving.  The second they hear our accents, they know we are from America, and they say, &#8220;Oh, and a very happy Thanksgiving to you &#8230;&#8221;  Why that touches me so much I can&#8217;t really say, but it does.<\/p>\n<p>At midnight last night, when it became my birthday, I was in a wacko nightclub, sipping whiskey, with my temporary boyfriend, in Ranelagh. It couldn&#8217;t have been a better birthday, really.  In an unfamiliar setting, but &#8230; feeling quite at home.  Happy.  That&#8217;s the word for how I felt.  Takes me a while to identify it.<\/p>\n<p>And we walked back to my <i>The Dead<\/i> look-alike street, and the moon was so full, so white, so over-blown, that it took my breath away.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Quick &#8211; someone guess which book that &#8220;last line&#8221; is from!!) I been away a long time, indeed. I am still away. Too many stories to tell. I am CLOGGED with stories. 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