{"id":29917,"date":"2010-11-11T06:21:09","date_gmt":"2010-11-11T11:21:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=29917"},"modified":"2010-11-11T06:39:00","modified_gmt":"2010-11-11T11:39:00","slug":"surgery-post-mortem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=29917","title":{"rendered":"Surgery Post-Mortem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?attachment_id=29918\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-29918\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/DSC09933.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"DSC09933\" width=\"3072\" height=\"2304\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-29918\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/DSC09933.jpg 3072w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/DSC09933-100x75.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/DSC09933-200x150.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/DSC09933-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 3072px) 100vw, 3072px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Anesthesia was such a breeze I don&#8217;t even remember it.  I appreciate everyone sharing their experiences, I really do!  I don&#8217;t remember counting-down, or anything like that.  I remember being placed on the table under the shiny lights, with about 10 people hovering around me wearing masks, and looking upside-down at the kindly anesthesiologist and then, in a flash, it was two hours later and someone was talking to me and I was trying to respond.  I actually would like an anesthesiologist on call for those nights when I can&#8217;t sleep.  It was awesome.  <\/p>\n<p>There was a delay in getting into the OR.  A couple of surgeries ran over.  So I had to wait, lying in bed, in this holding area with a bunch of other sick people.  My mother sat with me.  There was one man across from me and I am a bit haunted by him today.  My mother and I have talked about him, we both remember him.  Most people there had family members hanging out with them.  This guy spoke no English, I think they were trying to find a translator on short notice, he had had a stroke (and there were a host of other problems), and he couldn&#8217;t speak, and nobody could find his family members.  Perhaps it was a matter of translating.  They were asking him questions, like, what year is it, what is your name &#8230; and the questions upset him.  He was clearly very frightened.  And he had no one there.  I have thought about that man a lot since.  <\/p>\n<p>Every doctor\/nurse\/technician I met was very nice.  I had no idea what was going on half the time, but they all treated me with kindness and respect, which makes a huge difference.  The dude who was head of Anesthesiology came and interviewed me, and he had a thick German accent, which originally made him sound cold and clinical, but then I realized how kind he was.  He asked me when I had last eaten.  I said &#8220;Last night.&#8221;  (It was, by that point, 2 hours past my original surgery appointment, due to the back-up.  I was ravenous.)  He murmured, looking at his chart, &#8220;Poor girl.&#8221;  Kindness like that matters a lot when you are wearing a gown, a bracelet with your name on it, a little net cap around your head and attached to an IV.  <\/p>\n<p>There was one nurse who I flagged down, concerned because I had contacts in, and I was supposed to take them out before surgery.  But I had no saline solution, or containers, and I hadn&#8217;t brought my glasses.  Nobody had told me.  She totally got the situation, and went and got me two plastic containers, and she even put a label on one of them: &#8220;RIGHT&#8221;, and also filled up the containers with a saline solution.  She said to me, &#8220;If you&#8217;re as blind as I am, you&#8217;ll want to wait til the last minute to take them out.  Your mother can take the containers.&#8221;  She was a contact-lens wearer, OBVIOUSLY.  Not only sympathetic to the situation, but knowing beforehand what I would need.  I am sure it happens a lot (people having contacts in and needing to put them somewhere), but her thoughtful labeling of one of the containers as RIGHT was strangely comforting.  <\/p>\n<p>My doctor kept coming to visit me in what I thought of as the &#8220;holding pen&#8221;, telling me it wouldn&#8217;t be long now, maybe 20 more minutes, 40 more minutes.  <\/p>\n<p>And then once it was time, everything happened very quickly.  I was rolled off into the night, given some sort of sedative to chill me out.  I was rolled into this scary room, blasted with light, and moved onto the main table.  I then promptly began to float above myself in an alarming yet also awesome manner, rising up in a disembodied fashion to meet the smiling face of the anesthesiologist, and then suddenly it was 2 hours later.  <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been pretty tired since Tuesday, but it looks like I am recovering well.  And the situation that made me go get surgery in the first place appears to have vanished completely (knock on wood), so we&#8217;ll see what the next month brings, but it&#8217;s already a relief to not have to be dealing with that &#8230; <i>situation<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>Thank God my mother was here to ferry me home.  I felt fine, ready to eat a three-course meal and guzzle two cans of seltzer, but I was quite tired and crampy.  They gave me some Tylenol with Codeine which knocked out the pain, and yesterday I just lolled about, feeling better with every moment.  That&#8217;s a good thing, because I am as busy as I have ever been, and it was difficult to even take the two days off for this surgery.  <\/p>\n<p>Thank you everyone for your well-wishes.  I wrote the same thing in a comment to that original &#8220;surgery&#8221; post, but figured I would post something on the main page as well.<\/p>\n<p>I woke up yesterday morning, after a good solid 8 hours of sleep, and the sun hadn&#8217;t risen yet.  I glanced out my kitchen window and saw some pretty extraordinary things going on in the clouds.  I was feeling spry and healed and happy, Mum was still asleep, so I went downstairs and out into the chill dawn to snap a picture of what I saw.<\/p>\n<p>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?attachment_id=29927\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-29927\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/DSC09937.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"DSC09937\" width=\"3072\" height=\"2304\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-29927\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/DSC09937.jpg 3072w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/DSC09937-100x75.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/DSC09937-200x150.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/DSC09937-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 3072px) 100vw, 3072px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Anesthesia was such a breeze I don&#8217;t even remember it. 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