{"id":3387,"date":"2005-07-19T16:19:03","date_gmt":"2005-07-19T20:19:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=3387"},"modified":"2024-10-27T15:18:24","modified_gmt":"2024-10-27T19:18:24","slug":"you-know-its-meme-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=3387","title":{"rendered":"Meme Time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Haven&#8217;t done one of these in a long time. <a href=\"http:\/\/nomenestomen.mu.nu\/archives\/105156.php\">I got it from S. Faol\u00e1\u00ae\u00a0Wolf<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>What I was doing 10 years ago: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>1995.  My last summer in Chicago.  I was in a production of <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0375701230?ie=UTF8&#038;tag=thesheivari-20&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=9325&#038;creativeASIN=0375701230\">A Death in the Family<\/a><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.assoc-amazon.com\/e\/ir?t=thesheivari-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=0375701230\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" style=\"border:none !important; margin:0px !important;\" \/><\/i>. I made a new friend &#8211; Kate.  She&#8217;s still one of my best friends today.  There was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=3366\" target=\"blank\"\">a heat wave<\/a>.  I was moving to New York in the fall.  My heart was broken.  Because of a guy I was in love with and couldn&#8217;t have.  I&#8217;ve never loved anyone as much as I loved that guy and I was in agony, knowing I had to let him go.  In the meantime, though, I had <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=30653\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">window-boy<\/a>.  He was like a comfy old sweater, just beautiful to hang around, and be with &#8211; an awesome comfort, yes, but also a continuous adventure &#8230; I don&#8217;t know how I would have made it through that summer without him.  Strangely: with all the sadness and melancholy and impending good-byes &#8211; it was a great summer.  Even though I got so ill following the heat wave that my doctor made a house call.   I also re-connected with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=35814\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the favorite-ex<\/a>.  Can&#8217;t keep the guys straight?  That summer was all about good-byes.  All about the triumvirate of men who meant the most to me.<\/p>\n<p><b>Five years ago: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>2000.  Er &#8230; no idea.  It&#8217;s all a blur.<\/p>\n<p><b>One year ago: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>In July of last year, I received my first acceptance letter as a writer &#8211; from <i>The Sewanee Review<\/i>.  Damn issue hasn&#8217;t come out yet!  But it was one of those moments &#8211; of a small part of my ultimate dream come true.  But no big exterior changes.  My life looked pretty much the same a year ago as it does now.<\/p>\n<p>That sucks.  Come to think of it.  My goal is: If I do this meme thing a year from now &#8211; I would like to be able to say: My life looks nothing like it looked like a year ago today.<\/p>\n<p><b>Yesterday: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Spent the night with my dear friend Jen.  We sat in her air-conditioned apartment, babbling about each other&#8217;s lives.  I haven&#8217;t seen her in a while.  I got caught up on everything in her life, I raved about my high school reunion and seeing Keith M and the Herbie the Love Bug moment my friends and I all had on the way back from the reunion.  We then watched <i>6 Feet Under<\/i> &#8211; just like we used to do.  (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=19\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">We were roommates for 9 years<\/a>.  NINE YEARS!)  Beautiful night.  Candlelight, wine, soft comfy couch, crazy girl talk, and <i>6 Feet Under<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Five snacks I enjoy: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m a big Wheat Thins fan.  I love sliced red peppers and hummus.  Granola.  Cashews.  Red Hot Blue Chips.<\/p>\n<p><b>Five songs I know all the words to: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lose Yourself &#8211; Eminem<br \/>\nTomorrow &#8211; from <i>Annie<\/i><br \/>\nSgt. Pepper &#8211; The Beatles<br \/>\nLiving for the City &#8211; Stevie Wonder<br \/>\nLithium &#8211; Nirvana<\/p>\n<p><b>Five Things I would do with $100 million: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Buy a house.  Buy a car.  Give a lot of it away.  Set up a college fund for Cashel.  Help out my siblings.  Hire a personal trainer.  Buy my own roller coaster and put it in my massive backyard.  Travel.  Travel, travel, travel.  Oh, and I would get laser surgery on my poor blind eyeballs.<\/p>\n<p><b>Five locations I would like to run away to:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ireland.  North Dakota.  Wales.   Anywhere near a beach.<\/p>\n<p><b>Five things I like doing: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Swimming.  Reading.  Dancing.  Watching baseball.  Singing.<\/p>\n<p><b>Five bad habits I have: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>I bite my nails.  I procrastinate.  I kill plants.  (Although: I have just now hit the 2 year mark with keeping 2 plants alive.  whoo-hoo!!  I think I am ready to buy another one now &#8230;)  I wash dishes and then leave them in the dish rack.  Sometimes I get around to putting them in the cupboard &#8211; but usually I just keep them in the rack.<\/p>\n<p><b>Five things I would never wear: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>I would not dress in a garishly-colored African robe and a turban.  I would not wear short shorts and a halter top.  <a href=\"http:\/\/gofugyourself.typepad.com\/go_fug_yourself\/2005\/07\/behind_these_ha.html\">I would not wear anything like this<\/a>.  I would not wear a micro-mini and thigh-high boots, except as a costume.  I would not wear a long flowing Holly Hobby sundress.<\/p>\n<p><b>Five TV shows I like: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>6 Feet Under.  The West Wing.  Blow Out.  VH1 Behind the Music.  I guess I don&#8217;t really watch much TV.  I&#8217;m all about renting movies.<\/p>\n<p><b>Five biggest joys of the moment:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The view at the end of my street.  My new haircut.  Anticipating the two trips I&#8217;m going to take this summer.  All my Cary Grant movies that I get to watch whenever I want because I OWN THEM ALL.  Nostalgia for high school &#8211; as odd as that sounds!!<\/p>\n<p><b>Five favorite toys: <\/b><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not really a gadget girl.  If I had the 100 million dollars, maybe I could be!  So &#8230; I am glad I have a TV.  I love my laptop.  Those are all the &#8220;toys&#8221; I have.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Haven&#8217;t done one of these in a long time. I got it from S. Faol\u00e1\u00ae\u00a0Wolf. What I was doing 10 years ago: 1995. My last summer in Chicago. I was in a production of A Death in the Family. 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