{"id":35290,"date":"2011-03-16T19:32:57","date_gmt":"2011-03-16T23:32:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=35290"},"modified":"2011-11-14T10:00:37","modified_gmt":"2011-11-14T15:00:37","slug":"a-meeting-of-the-minds","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=35290","title":{"rendered":"A Meeting of the Minds"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last night I joined <a href=\"http:\/\/selfstyledsiren.blogspot.com\/\">The Self-Styled Siren<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vanityfair.com\/online\/wolcott\">James Wolcott<\/a> for drinks at the bar made famous (at least in part) by the marvelous writer (known as Scribbler) at <a href=\"http:\/\/behindthestick.wordpress.com\/\">Behind the Stick<\/a>.   I have been reading Scribbler&#8217;s site for a couple of years now (and if you aren&#8217;t &#8211; then check him out immediately!), and he&#8217;s commented here a couple of times, and I was very excited to meet him finally.  I had never met Wolcott either, although he&#8217;s linked to me on occasion (sadly, the first time he linked to me, I happened to be going OFF on someone &#8211; Peter Manso, if you must know &#8211; and I used rather colorful language.  As a matter of fact, I believe the phrase, &#8220;Don&#8217;t be a whiny bitch about it&#8221; was involved.  Mortification.)  But I&#8217;ve been reading Wolcott for years, so it was such a pleasure to put a face to the well-known name.  The Siren, of course, I&#8217;ve met a couple of times socially, so it was a great pow-wow.  Scribbler set us up at one end of the bar, and we drank and ate and talked and soaked up the atmosphere for a couple of glorious hours.  We talked about Woody Allen, and politics and political bloggers (&#8220;I&#8217;ve had an Instalanche in my day,&#8221; I said, &#8220;although I can&#8217;t stand that term.  Nerds.&#8221;), our own writing, mutual friends, our various stresses and joys, people we know, people we don&#8217;t know &#8211; there was a lot of laughter, and a lot of listening going on, and it was so much fun.  I was in the presence of one person (Siren) I am getting to know personally (after reading her voraciously for a couple of years), and like <i>so much<\/i>, and two people I have gotten to know only through their writing &#8211; and there&#8217;s nothing quite like that feeling of putting faces to names and online personae.  I&#8217;ve had a lot of that in my years of writing, and, in general, it&#8217;s always been a pleasure.  The people whose personalities match the personae they have created &#8230; there is no fakery going on, no trickery &#8230; You meet the person whose writing you love, and it&#8217;s the same person.  I am sure the opposite is often the case, but I have been very fortunate.  I felt shy going into the night, I won&#8217;t lie.  But the second I walked in, and Scribbler, behind the bar, said to me, &#8220;Sheila?&#8221; and I walked over to him and he kissed my hand &#8230; all was well.  It was a lovely evening.  Siren and I shared a cab afterwards, and the conversation continued.  I am sure it will continue on and on and on.  These are good people.  New York glittered for me last night.  It truly <i>glittered<\/i>. Not just because of the Chrysler Building and the evening streetlamps lit up the avenues, but because of the company.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last night I joined The Self-Styled Siren and James Wolcott for drinks at the bar made famous (at least in part) by the marvelous writer (known as Scribbler) at Behind the Stick. 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