Just a question:<\/p>\n
What would make someone read my blog and then put pornographic search terms into the search box?<\/p>\n
It happens all the time.<\/p>\n
Does this happen to other bloggers? Does this happen to male bloggers? I’m just asking. Do male bloggers have people putting stuff like “pictures of your cock” in their Search box? I’m truly asking this because I don’t know the answer.<\/p>\n
The porno search terms feel hostile to me. I’m not losing sleep over it – it happens too often for me to get really bothered by it – but I have to admit, I don’t get it. Why would people think they could find nude photographs of me here? Is it something in how I write? But … that can’t be. How could you look at what I write and think that I’m THAT kind of blogger?<\/p>\n
This is why I say that those search terms feel very very hostile to me.<\/p>\n
If it were an isolated incident I wouldn’t even mention it … but it happens all the time.<\/p>\n
I don’t believe these people are really looking for nudie pictures of me. I don’t believe these people really believe that I would post pictures of myself having sex. I think that they read what I write, and somehow it either pisses them off (which is so bizarre … what, they can’t stand Cary Grant fans or something?), or, more likely: there’s something in me that they don’t GET … and that bugs the SHIT out of them … so to ‘get back at me’ they put words like “pussy” and “pictures of your cunt” (I woke up to that one this morning – thanks, dude!) in my search box – knowing that I will see them. Knowing that I will see them and … what … have a moment of shame and humiliation? They want to shame me. They want me to have a moment of shame. They look forward to that. They look forward to bringing me down. Or something pathetic like that.<\/p>\n
I still don’t understand why this is the case. I have my theories. Oh, I’ve got theories!<\/p>\n
I just ban their IP addresses and as I do so I shake my head, thinking: “Man. Another loser jag-off at his keyboard who has no life.”<\/p>\n
But still. It’s curious to me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Just a question: What would make someone read my blog and then put pornographic search terms into the search box? It happens all the time. Does this happen to other bloggers? Does this happen to male bloggers? I’m just asking. … Continue reading