{"id":4263,"date":"2006-01-30T17:08:49","date_gmt":"2006-01-30T22:08:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=4263"},"modified":"2024-10-27T15:37:55","modified_gmt":"2024-10-27T19:37:55","slug":"things-experienced-so-far-in-la-part-23","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=4263","title":{"rendered":"Things experienced so far in LA \u2013 part 23"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8212; Bren and Cash and I came back to Bren&#8217;s place, absolutely wiped OUT.  Actually, Bren and I were the ones who were wiped out.  Cashel promptly had to go into a room, lock the door, and re-enact &#8230; movie scenes or something &#8230; This is such recognizable behavior to me.  Needing alone time.  Fantasy time.  I never could just get off the school bus and go running off with my friends.  I always needed half an hour at home, decompressing, etc.  If you&#8217;re a cerebral imaginative little kid &#8211; then it takes a lot of RESTRAINT to hold all that stuff in check during school hours.  It&#8217;s exhausting.  So anyway.  Cashel just went NUTS in the other room.  The explosions!  The laser blasts!  The random Jedi commands!<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; I was very entertained by Bren&#8217;s two roommates.  Bren is moving into his own place this week &#8211; so I&#8217;m glad I got to meet these two gentlemen.  I&#8217;ve only heard of them &#8230; but man.  They&#8217;re just both so so nice.  Warmed my heart.  They just opened their house to me.  Both actors, both with a gazillion stories to tell.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; We sat around and talked about the Inside the Actors Studio show &#8211; I regaled them with stories.  They regaled me with stories.  We DISHED on all of our celebrity encounters.  Up close and personal.  Half of the stories I am not allowed to tell.  Jim started to tell me one, and he suddenly stopped himself and said, &#8220;I just realized I&#8217;m talking to the press.&#8221;  (hahahaha meaning &#8211; my silly blog)  Then he said, &#8220;Is this OTB?&#8221;  Off the blog.  hahahaha  We KEPT saying this over the rest of the night.  &#8220;Now you&#8217;re sure this is OTB?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; It was great.  I really enjoyed the both of them.  Really fun.  I had heard so much about them, they&#8217;re basically members of our family &#8211; through Mike, through Bren &#8230; they&#8217;re a big group of working actors out there, and have been friends for years &#8211; so it was wonderful meeting them.  OTB.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; It was heartcracking to me to drive off (Larry gave me a ride home) &#8211; with Cashel standing in the garage with Bren &#8211; waving at our car &#8211; and I can hear his little voice shouting, &#8220;BYE, AUNTIE SHEILA.&#8221;  I&#8217;m in tears right now.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; The only thing that would have made the whole thing even more perfect would have been if Jean and Siobhan had been out there with us.  We missed them both.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Alex and I spent our last evening together watching <i>Dark Heart Iron Hand<\/i> &#8211; one of our favorite shows on television.  We continuously called it the wrong title.  &#8220;Dark Head.  Iron Glove.&#8221;  &#8220;Dark Hand.  Iron Weed.&#8221;  Etc.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; And yesterday morning I left.  I drove off into the morning to get myself to the airport.  Alex and I had kind of a melancholy parting.  I mean, a big hug and everything &#8230; but &#8230; I miss her already.  Ouch.  I came home last night and wondered where the hell Alex was!  We settled right into a great vibe with each other &#8230; It was one of the nicest vacations I&#8217;ve ever had (even that first crazy day!!)  But I drove off, waving to Alex, seeing her waving hand out the car window &#8230; and tears started streaming down my face as I catapulted onto the damn 101.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; I cannot even explain how insane it was &#8230; the 405 &#8230; I just have no words &#8230; and I just stuck to my guns and followed the signs to the airport.  I changed lanes.  This continues to amaze me.  I followed the damn signs.  I ignored my instincts.  I just followed the signs.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; The airport was LUNACY.  I made my flight with only minutes to spare.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Lauren Hutton was sitting in first class.  She&#8217;s just as beautiful and COOL-looking in person as I imagined her to be.  Tousled hair, no makeup, showing her age &#8230; but great body &#8230; and wearing huge red and yellow running sneakers.  I just love her.  Friendly face, too.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Hey, Lauren!  Whassup???<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Oh, and Jimmy Connors was on my flight as well.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; I read <i>Innocents Abroad<\/i> all the way home.  I had a strange hurt in my heart.  It was hard to say goodbye to Cashel and Bren, and it hurt to say goodbye to Alex.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; The weather here has been unseasonably warm.  Really no different from LA except wetter.  It was rainy when I got off the plane.  A rainy dark New York night.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; It is good to get back to my apartment.  To all my things.  My bed.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; I want to buy a Swiffer.  I have been using an old-fashioned mop and bucket for years.  But through Alex I have learned the error of my ways.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Weird: I didn&#8217;t see the Pacific Ocean once during this trip!  I also didn&#8217;t see <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=30653\">Window Boy<\/a>.  He lives out there.  Haven&#8217;t seen him in a couple of years and I thought it would be fun to track him down &#8230; but it didn&#8217;t end up happening.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; I have no idea what I&#8217;m writing.  I miss LA.  I miss Alex.  I miss Bren and Cash.  I miss looking up and seeing mountains &#8211; especially at night &#8211; the mountains dotted with lights, lights sparkling out into the dark &#8230;  Heartcrack.  HEARTCRACK.  I miss my sisters.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; A wonderful vacation.  I have needed it.  True relaxation.  True love surrounding me.  Not enough time with the cousins &#8230; but that&#8217;ll also have to wait for next time.  I got my eye on Mike and Lisa&#8217;s guest house.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8212; Bren and Cash and I came back to Bren&#8217;s place, absolutely wiped OUT. Actually, Bren and I were the ones who were wiped out. 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