{"id":6747,"date":"2007-06-27T19:09:50","date_gmt":"2007-06-27T23:09:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=6747"},"modified":"2015-05-30T11:45:31","modified_gmt":"2015-05-30T15:45:31","slug":"snapshots-25","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=6747","title":{"rendered":"Snapshots"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8212; It&#8217;s annoyingly hot.  The heat makes me feel fat and grubby.  The subway is particularly awful, and I have to grit my teeth to NOT say to people who brush up against me, &#8216;Do you mind?&#8217;  My aversion to crowds is especially interesting considering where I have chosen to live.  I do not mind crowds in the winter.  I find them bracing then.  But in the summer, I am one step away from going postal at every moment.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; I just signed another year&#8217;s lease, which is an odd sensation because of all of my other plans I had a mere 2 months ago, which involved upheaval and change.  Well, I&#8217;ve still got the upheaval and change &#8211; it&#8217;s just that it&#8217;s happening in New York now for the time being, and I have to be <i>here<\/i>.  I had been living in my apartment looking around, calculating how long it would take to transfer everything into boxes &#8211; and I even got started, took down pictures, boxed up some books &#8230; and now I&#8217;m still here.  I think I might leave the stuff in boxes, though.  To remind myself of that other plan, which is still a good one.  Can&#8217;t ever get too complacent.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; I seriously cannot imagine my life without Nag Champa incense.  I get NERVOUS when I run out.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; After finishing <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/037572785X\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=9325&#038;creativeASIN=037572785X&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;tag=thesheivari-20&#038;linkId=MGJ3DZIPRY3QRLSK\">Veronica<\/a><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=thesheivari-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=037572785X\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" style=\"border:none !important; margin:0px !important;\" \/><\/i>, I decided to go with something a bit lighter &#8211; and I&#8217;m in a fiction phase &#8211; so I picked up Elinor Lipman&#8217;s <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0375724591\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=9325&#038;creativeASIN=0375724591&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;tag=thesheivari-20&#038;linkId=ERFZ4GOAB3XH33EW\">The Pursuit of Alice Thrift<\/a><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=thesheivari-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=0375724591\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" style=\"border:none !important; margin:0px !important;\" \/><\/i>.  Elinor Lipman is a wonderful writer &#8211; one of those rare rare writers who can make me laugh out loud &#8211; and I&#8217;ll be posting more about her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Speaking of books, here are two funny related stories.  Years ago, Allison and I were sitting in a loud music club &#8211; so loud we had to scream &#8211; and I was telling her about Philip Gourevitch&#8217;s amazing <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0312243359\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=9325&#038;creativeASIN=0312243359&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;tag=thesheivari-20&#038;linkId=M7DMZUZSHW53FHNP\">We Wish to Inform You That Tomorrow We Will be Killed With Our Families: Stories from Rwanda<\/a><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=thesheivari-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=0312243359\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" style=\"border:none !important; margin:0px !important;\" \/><\/i>.  I was shouting about it in her ear.  She was into it, excited to read it.  Later in the night, we came back to it &#8211; when she said, obviously intending to buy it, &#8220;Now &#8211; what was that book you mentioned?  <i>Please Forgive Me But I am About to be Murdered In Front of my Mother<\/i>?&#8221;  I still shake with laughter when I remember that.  And she wasn&#8217;t being snarky &#8211; she truly did not remember the title, and that was her best shot.  And then last week, after my two posts about <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1400078776\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=9325&#038;creativeASIN=1400078776&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;tag=thesheivari-20&#038;linkId=DAH6S2JHUKZWC7W4\">Never Let Me Go<\/a><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=thesheivari-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=1400078776\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" style=\"border:none !important; margin:0px !important;\" \/><\/i> by Kazuo Ishiguro &#8211; she called me.  &#8220;So tell me about this book!!&#8221;  I raved about it to her.  And then this past weekend, she went to the bookstore across the street from her apartment and said to the clerk, &#8220;Hi &#8211; I&#8217;m looking for a book and it&#8217;s by the guy who wrote <i>Remains of the Day<\/i> and it&#8217;s called &#8230;. <i>Never Push Me Off the Cliff<\/i>??&#8221;  Again, she wasn&#8217;t snarking &#8211; she was trying to remember and that was her best shot.  I am guffawing.  hahahahahahaha  The clerk was like, &#8220;Uhm, never heard of that &#8230; &#8221;  Too funny.  But she now has it &#8211; and she&#8217;s tearing through it!<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; I&#8217;ve got <i>Rio Bravo<\/i> to watch tonight.  And <i>Paris, Texas<\/i> to watch tomorrow night.  And a shitload of work to do between the two movies.  It&#8217;s good to have bookends.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8212; It&#8217;s annoyingly hot. The heat makes me feel fat and grubby. 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