{"id":7529,"date":"2007-12-31T15:05:00","date_gmt":"2007-12-31T20:05:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=7529"},"modified":"2010-07-18T11:35:23","modified_gmt":"2010-07-18T15:35:23","slug":"two-examples-of-friends-telling-me-to-shut-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=7529","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Shut up, Sheila.&#8221;  Two Examples."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Example 1:<\/p>\n<p>I was babbling at Mitchell about Freedom Jam, and how they came to my high school, and how cool it was, and how Tom Caffey &#8211; of said Freedom Jam &#8211; found his name on my blog and emailed me 25 years after the fact to thank me for my support.  Mitchell and I were driving, in Rhode Island, and I was so excited about this story &#8211; and Mitchell listened, silently.  Totally supportive and into it, by the way &#8230; but he finally had to speak up.  It went like this:<\/p>\n<p>Me:  &#8220;So &#8230; when I was in high school &#8211; a &#8216;rock group&#8217; called Freedom Jam came to an assembly and performed &#8211; and for a couple days there was Freedom Jam mania in school &#8211; I was all about Freedom Jam!!  I was so into it!  I featured Freedom Jam in a Diary Friday and whaddya know &#8211; Tom Caffey, the keyboardist of Freedom Jam emailed me &#8211; and he said &#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Mitchell: (a quick interjection, when he could get a word in edgewise)  &#8220;Stop saying Freedom Jam.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Example 2.<\/p>\n<p>Talking with Kate the other night, I said the following phrase, &#8220;He needs to make an honest woman out of her&#8221; about 5 times.  In a row.  The phrase was included in almost every sentence I said.  Kate listened, patiently, totally involved, whatever, but, like Mitchell before her, she had to speak up.<\/p>\n<p>Me:  (for the fifth time) &#8220;He needs to make an honest woman out of her!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Kate:  &#8220;Please don&#8217;t say that again.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>There are probably more examples of this but these are my 2 favorites.  I love my friends.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Stop saying Freedom Jam.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Like &#8211; he couldn&#8217;t bear it.  If he heard me say those 2 words one more time, his head was going to explode.  Also, he said it so calmly and quietly.  Not like he was pleading or exasperated.  Just a calm quiet order.  &#8220;Stop saying Freedom Jam.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Example 1: I was babbling at Mitchell about Freedom Jam, and how they came to my high school, and how cool it was, and how Tom Caffey &#8211; of said Freedom Jam &#8211; found his name on my blog and &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=7529\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[600],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7529"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7529"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7529\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22624,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7529\/revisions\/22624"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7529"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7529"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7529"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}