{"id":8881,"date":"2009-01-26T19:56:12","date_gmt":"2009-01-27T00:56:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=8881"},"modified":"2024-10-27T15:07:30","modified_gmt":"2024-10-27T19:07:30","slug":"scanning-monday-13","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/?p=8881","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I think we&#8217;re in a rut.&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve probably put this one up before because it makes me laugh.  Seesawing &#8211; as an adult &#8211; with the boy you are dating &#8211; but most important: seesawing with a total lack of irony.<\/p>\n<p>Michael is one of the many friends who has helped keep me sane this past couple of months.<\/p>\n<p>In this photo, we have known each other for all of four weeks.  We began dating almost immediately upon meeting one another, skipping all of the preliminary steps &#8211; because seriously, why bother &#8211; and at the time that this photo was taken we had settled into the rhythm of an old married couple.  He even said to me, around this time, &#8220;I think we&#8217;re in a rut.  We need to shake things up.&#8221;  A rut.  After four weeks. It made no sense, but whatever, he&#8217;s still in my life today.  Not too shabby, not too shabby.  Important to see the gift in such things.<\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/2188019524_2053a2d366_c.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"552\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183135\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/2188019524_2053a2d366_c.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/2188019524_2053a2d366_c-200x138.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/2188019524_2053a2d366_c-400x276.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/2188019524_2053a2d366_c-100x69.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/2188019524_2053a2d366_c-768x530.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/1909876_44706002631_9199_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"604\" height=\"413\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183266\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/1909876_44706002631_9199_n.jpg 604w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/1909876_44706002631_9199_n-200x137.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/1909876_44706002631_9199_n-400x274.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/1909876_44706002631_9199_n-100x68.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 604px) 100vw, 604px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/1909876_44707522631_4102_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"604\" height=\"425\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-183269\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/1909876_44707522631_4102_n.jpg 604w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/1909876_44707522631_4102_n-200x141.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/1909876_44707522631_4102_n-400x281.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.sheilaomalley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/1909876_44707522631_4102_n-100x70.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 604px) 100vw, 604px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve probably put this one up before because it makes me laugh. Seesawing &#8211; as an adult &#8211; with the boy you are dating &#8211; but most important: seesawing with a total lack of irony. 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