And here, now, the relationship between Jefferson and Adams started to get prickly.
July 17, 1791: Jefferson to Adams
That you and I differ in our ideas of the best form of government is well known to us both: but we have differed as friends should do, respecting the purity of each other’s motives, and confining our difference of opinion to private conversation. And I can declare with truth in the presence of the almighty that nothing was further from my intention or expectation than to have had either my own or your name brought before the public on this occasion. The friendship and confidence which has so long existed between us required this explanation from me, and I know you too well to fear any misconstruction of the motives of it. Some people here who would wish me to be, or to be thought, fuilty of impropieties have suggested that I was Agricola, that I was Brutus etc etc. [Anonymous op-ed columns, attacking John Adams, etc. – signed under these names] I never did in my life, either by myself or by any other, have a sentence of mine inserted in a newspaper without putting my name to it; and I believe I never shall.
John Adams did not accept the olive branch and fired back a letter on July 29, 1791:
You declare very explicitly that you never did, by yourself, or by any other, have a Sentence of yours, inserted in a Newspaper without your name to it. And I, with equal frankness declare that I never did, either by my self or by any other, have a Sentence of mine inserted in any Newspaper since I left Philadelphia. I neither wrote nor corrected Publicola. The Writer in the Composition of his Pieces [which turned out to be Adams’ son, John Quincy Adams] followed his own Judgment, Information and discretion, without any assistance from me.
You observe “that You and I differ in our Ideas of the best form of Government is well known to us both.” But, my dear Sir, you will give me leave to say, that I do not know this. I know not what your Idea is of the best form of Government. You and I have never had a serious conversation together that I can recollect concerning the nature of Government. The very transient hints that have ever passed between Us have been jocular and superficial, without ever coming to any explanation. If You suppose that I have ever or ever had a design or desire, of attempting to introduce a Government of King, Lords, and Commons, or in other words an hereditary Executive, or an hereditary Senate, either into the Government of the United States or that of any Individual State, in this Country, you are wholly mistaken. There is not such a Thought expressed or intimated in any public writing or private Letter of mine, and I may safely challenge all Mankind to produce such a passage and quote the Chapter and Verse.
If you have ever put such a Construction on any Thing of mine, I beg you would mention it to me, and I will undertake to convince you, that it has no such meaning…
I thank you, Sir, very sincerely for writing to me upon this Occasion. It was high time that you and I should come to an explanation with each other. The friendship that has subsisted for fifteen Years between Us without the smallest interruption, and untill this occasion without the slightest Suspicion, ever has been and still is, very dear to my heart. There is no office which I would not resign, rather than give a just occasion to one friend to forsake me. Your motives for writing to me, I have not a doubt were the most pure and the most friendly; and I have no suspicion that you will not receive this explanation from me in the same candid light.
Ouch. It would be over 20 years before the wounds of this break healed, and the two could settle down to try to “explain” themselves to each other.
Is it true that Adams said to Jefferson at the White House: “You have turned me out!”?
Not that I am aware of. Adams did not attend the inauguration of Jefferson, and left town at 4 in the morning on the day of the celebration. This was considered by all involved peevish, and VERY bad form.
I think you will enjoy this note from Jefferson in Paris to George Washington, on the occasion of his first election to the Presidency:
Though we have not heard of the actual opening of the new Congress, consequently have not official information of your election as President of the United States, yet as there never could be a doubt entertained of it, permit me to express here my felicitations, not to yourself, but to my country. Nobody who has tried both public and private life can doubt that you were much happier on the banks of the Potomac than you will be in New York. But there was nobody so well qualified as yourself to put our new machine into a regular course of action, nobody the authority of whose name could have so effectually crushed opposition at home and prolonged respect abroad. I am sensible of the immensity of the sacrifice on your part. Your measure of fame was full to the brim; and therefore you have nothing to gain. But there are cases wherein there is a duty to risk all against nothing, and I believe this was exactly the case. We may presume, too, according to every rule of probability that, after doing a great deal of good, you will be found to have lost nothing but private repose.