Other Lessons Learned From Hosting a Gathering

The curtains my mother made me (and that my father installed) are gorgeous. I can’t describe how much I love them, and how they make my room feel warm and safe. I got many many compliments on the curtains. Kudos, Mum. And Kudos to Dad, the installer.

— I have re-learned that my apartment is really cool. People like to be in it, they enjoy the atmosphere. I lucked out. I BEYOND lucked out.

— I have learned that my postcard of Marilyn Monroe wearing blue jeans and lifting barbells, which I have on my bulletin board in the kitchen, is startling and exciting to all who see it.

— I have learned that my “rigid aromatherapy” practice has a soothing and calming effect of all who enter my space. “Is that lavendar?” “Ooh, I love the scent of this one … what is it?”

— I have learned that the foyer to my building truly needs to have an overhead light in it, because without one? As I let people in, it felt like I should be holding a drippy flaming candleabra and a long monk’s robe. “Welcome to my medieval darkened castle.”

— I have re-learned, yet again, that I have the greatest friends in the world. They dealt with the 4-forks having to be divided between 7-people with humor and aplomb.

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12 Responses to Other Lessons Learned From Hosting a Gathering

  1. peteb says:

    In re: “As I let people in, it felt like I should be holding a drippy flaming candleabra and a long monk’s robe.”

    Either that or you should have Marty Feldman as your doorman.

  2. peteb says:

    I assume you have no plans to redecorate your apartment as an “ice cave” then?

  3. red says:

    hahaha

    No. No ice cave. My place is more like a hobbit hole. Cozy, dark, Oriental rugs, and FIVE THOUSAND BOOKS. :)

  4. red says:

    I do roll up and down my hallway, though, in a concrete ball of my own making. So I’ve got that goin’ for me.

  5. peteb says:

    It’s a much under-rated leisure activity, Sheila.. although I’m starting to gravitate towards the veggie-mechanoids myself…

  6. mere says:

    I love your tin ceilings. They are gorgeous. I have to agree with you about needing a hall light, though…my midnight trek to the bathroom that time we had a sleepover was kind of scary. I was gripping both walls so that I wouldn’t fall. hahahhaaha…good times…

  7. just1beth says:

    yeah-trying not to fallon

    yeah- trying not to fall on me!!!!!

  8. just1beth says:

    sorry-i am typing one handed cause i am hooked up to my IV!!!!

  9. Not a nasty, dirty, wet hole, filled with the ends of worms and an oozy smell, nor yet a dry, bare, sandy hole with nothing in it to sit down on or to eat: it was a hobbit-hole, and that means comfort.

    Sounds like a good time.

  10. Dave J says:

    “Welcome to my medieval darkened castle.”

    You know, there’s definitely something to be said for that, though. A time and place for everything, I suppose.

  11. red says:

    DaveJ:

    I would actually love to live in a medieval darkened castle. It appeals to my melancholy side, perhaps.

    Either a medieval darkened castle or a hobbit hole. With 10 roller coasters in the backyard, of course.

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